When I got home last Wednesday and checked email, Krissi had an appointment reminder – for his annual full-body dermatology exam. I pay close attention to these for reasons which will be apparent in a moment.
When Krissi and I moved to this town, our new family physician recommended a dermatologist.
She has proved excellent.
My first appointment was the day after Krissi’s initial full body exam. He told me afterward that she was very thorough.
The next day, after my exam she didn’t immediately leave the room but excused the nurse sat down, looked at me, deadpan, and asked “are you whipping your husband?”
I was stunned. I’m sure I blushed. All sorts of things rushed through my head, including that if I admitted it, she might report me to the police.
She could tell I was stunned and before I could speak, reassured me, “don’t be afraid. You’re my patient. I could tell by looking at him yesterday that he’s been whipped. All over. And that his anus has been penetrated … This is fine. He seems to be a good boy.”
“He is” I replied. I sensed that she had been down this road with others or perhaps had other experiences; so I decided to not be evasive. It was (and is) what it is.
“Is he pegged?” (She knew the vernacular).
“Yes.”
“How often is he disciplined?”
“Whenever its needed and at least once a week.”
“I appreciate your honesty. I want to see him every 5 weeks. I’ll instruct the staff. Not every visit can be billed to insurance, you know.”
And so began what’s become a friendship. I believe I helped her through a (very) rough divorce (it had been a FLR, BTW, and he betrayed her.) She’s taken excellent care of Krissi and me, offering useful “skin maintenance” advice (for him) on occasion. Over the first year, particularly after she and her husband separated, I came to understand that she was a Domme by character, heart, and personality, but with only limited practice, and that she would welcome learning more on Krissi. So, I offered him for “gratuities.” She accepted. (This may have been what she meant, at the start, by “some visits would not be covered by insurance.”) Gratuities have from time time extended to others in the practice, including her married female partner, some staff, and two female attorneys upstairs. If I’m not present (if his and my exams are not one-after-the-other), she makes these calls. She’s a healthcare pro and has earned my trust.
She’s never joined my group because she lives over 40 miles away, gets to enjoy him pretty much whenever she asks, frequent full-body exams catering to it well.
The signal that an exam will have “an expanded scope” is an appointment moved to 5PM. The office closes at 4:30.
Last week’s appointment reminder was for 5PM, this Wednesday. My annual exam is in the morning. No follow-up email has come, so its clear I’m not invited. He’ll just go by himself.
I must add that she and I are having a long discussion – going on now, off-and-on, for 2 years, about the interns – coeds from the local college – she hires every summer … more on this some other time.
… Krissi’s been heavily used over the last week. Guess there’s no rest for the weary! Ha!!
Phenomenal! I was just about to share my update from visiting Nora’s estate this weekend for physical exams—perfect timing!
I’d love to learn more about your dermatologist; finding kink-friendly medical professionals can be quite challenging!