Sub frenzy is that intense rush where you want to say yes to everything, serve everyone, and push yourself further than you normally would. It can feel exciting and empowering, but it often leads to poor decisions, ignored limits, and eventual burnout. You might overlook red flags, skip important conversations, or agree to things you are not truly ready for. Recognizing the signs early is critical. Slow yourself down, take a step back, and check in with your actual capacity. Submission is not about doing everything at once. It is about consistency, awareness, and long-term growth.
I have heard this since then, but I wish someone had told me about sub frenzy when I first got interested…
Thanks for spreading the word Nursedomme Jessica!
Why do you wish you’d known? Did you do things you regret, or would have done differently? Maybe you didn’t do things you now wish you’d done; that you didn’t take advantage of an opportunity, now missed, that you over-controlled rising frenzy. Personal experiences, shared, can be powerfully educational. Devils are in details.