
How to Track Erections for Health and Humiliation

An erection is many things: a signal of desire, a tool of pleasure, a target of humiliation. But for a Domme, it can also be a diagnostic. Spontaneous erections—especially the ones that happen without permission—offer insight into a submissive’s physical state, hormone levels, stress response, and prostate health. They’re also an opportunity for control. If he’s getting hard without your approval, you should at least know about it.
This guide teaches you how to turn his involuntary hard-ons into a ritual of service, reporting, and inspection.
1. Why Erections Matter
Erections don’t just measure arousal. They are affected by hydration, sleep, blood flow, and testosterone. A sudden drop in frequency or firmness can be a sign of:
- Prostate inflammation
- Cardiovascular issues
- Hormonal imbalance
- Chronic stress or burnout
By requiring your sub to monitor and report his erections, you establish oversight of a very personal health indicator. You also reinforce the reality that his body is not private. It belongs to you.
2. Establish the Rules of Reporting
Make it a daily requirement: if he gets hard, he tells you.
Your rules might include:
- Frequency: “Every erection must be reported within 10 minutes of it going down.”
- Detail: “Note the time, what caused it (if anything), estimated duration, and a 1–10 hardness scale.”
- Tone: “You will report with full honesty and full shame. This is not for your pleasure.”
Use a shared log, task form, or ritual message format:
7:40 AM – Woke up with morning wood. No dream I can remember. Hardness: 9. Lasted 5 minutes before I got up. No touching. No orgasm. Permission was not requested.
3. Use Inspection and Verification
At your discretion, ask for visual proof. This could be:
- A photo of the post-erection state
- A “soft now, but I was hard earlier” statement with video proof
- Scheduled check-ins during known erection windows (early morning, after workouts, etc.)
He is not to perform for your attention. He is documenting the physical truth, like a specimen under study.
4. Correct Dishonesty and Omission
If you suspect he’s lying, forgetting, or exaggerating, introduce punishment for dishonesty:
- Requiring public logs instead of private ones
- Doubling his journaling tasks
- Erection control: tease without touching for every failed report
You are training him to be transparent, not just obedient. A sub who lies about his body is a risk to himself and to your authority.
5. Layer in Psychological Control
Once the habit is established, deepen the humiliation:
- Have him whisper his report aloud on voice note
- Make him beg forgiveness for every hard-on not caused by you
- Add tags: “permitted,” “punishable,” “spontaneous,” “pathetic”
For example:
Mistress, I had a permitted erection while completing my inspection photo task. It lasted six minutes. I touched myself without stroking. I am ashamed and grateful. Hardness: 8.
6. Use Long-Term Patterns to Monitor Health
Over time, trends will emerge. If you notice fewer spontaneous erections, or a dip in his hardness scale, it may be time to:
- Adjust diet or sleep routines
- Mandate a prostate exam
- Institute cardio protocols or supplements
- Temporarily reduce chastity (if applicable)
You are not just managing his libido. You’re maintaining a living system that reflects his obedience and wellness.
Final Note:
Most submissive men won’t think to do this on their own. That’s exactly why it works. You are making him aware of his body through your rules, and you are using it to reinforce your ownership.
His erections become less about what he wants, and more about what you require: honesty, inspection, accountability.
Because in a Femdom dynamic, even his cock reports to you.
I adore the way you think, Mistress.
Done your way, it feels like SUCH a delicious display of TPE, I dig it.
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