The Taste of Ownership: Why Some Men Crave the Ultimate Act of Humiliation
Let me get this out up front: I love it. I crave it. I dream about it when I’m not allowed to have it. And when I am allowed—when I’m told to kneel, open wide, and be still while she lifts her leg or straddles my face—it’s not just a kink. It’s communion. It’s connection. It’s humiliation. It’s worship.
I’m talking, of course, about golden showers.
Some call it piss play. Some call it watersports. But for me, it’s simpler and more sacred: it’s drinking Her golden juice.
Not Just Dirty—It’s Divine
To outsiders, it probably sounds filthy. Unsanitary. Extreme. But submissives like me don’t chase this kind of play because it’s clean. We crave it because it’s messy. Because it’s degrading. Because it demands surrender at the deepest level.
This isn’t about rebellion—it’s about reverence. When I kneel before my Domme and open my mouth, I’m not being “naughty.” I’m showing her that her body is holy. Every inch of it. Every drop. Every function.
When she pisses on me, she’s not just marking territory. She’s making a statement: you are mine. And when she tells me to swallow, to gulp it down like the desperate little pet I am, that’s not just control. That’s dominion.
The Psychology of Drinking Her
For me, it hits so many layers.
Obedience: There is no faking submission when warm piss hits your tongue. You either obey or you don’t. And when you do? You prove, without words, that her will is your law.
Humiliation: That burn in the cheeks when you’re on your knees, licking it off her feet or catching it in a dog bowl—that’s real. That’s deep. And for those of us wired to eroticize shame, there’s nothing quite like it.
Devotion: It’s one thing to say you worship her. It’s another to drink her waste like it’s nectar. It doesn’t get more symbolic than that.
Connection: When she lets go—literally and figuratively—there’s trust. Intimacy. She lets you see her raw and unfiltered, and you respond by receiving her. That’s not casual play. That’s a bond.
Not Every Domme Offers It—And That Makes It Special
I’m lucky. I have had the honor to serve women who understand what this means to me. They don’t indulge the kink because I want it. They use it because they can. Because it reminds me who I am and who she is. Because it puts me in my place, again and again.
But not every Domme is into it. And that’s okay. This kind of play requires consent, safety, and sometimes a lot of negotiation. It isn’t about pressuring anyone. It’s about finding someone who wants to own you in that specific, unrelenting way.
Be Safe
Watersports aren’t for everyone, but if you’re going to play, make sure to be safe. Mistress Heather wrote an in-depth guide, and it includes some tips for keeping golden showers kinky and safe. Make sure to read it!
Rituals and Fantasies
Some of the most powerful scenes I’ve had with my Dommes were golden rituals. Morning piss in a coffee mug, served like a gift. A long session where I was leashed and made to drink from a toilet after she used it. Times when I was denied for weeks, then told to drink straight from her with no warning.
One time, she put me on all fours in the shower and just said, “Don’t spill a drop.” The sound of it splashing, the warmth, the scent, the way she looked down at me—it broke something open in me. Not in a bad way. In the way that makes you realize, I was made for this.
Final Thoughts From a Piss-Drunk Pet
People think golden showers are just about being gross, but they miss the point. For submissives like me, this is about transformation. It’s about taking something shameful and making it sacred. It’s about letting your Domme leave a part of herself inside you—in the most literal way.
Every time she blesses me with her golden juice, it rewires me just a little more. Makes me softer. Lower. More hers.
So if you’ve ever wondered why a man might beg to be pissed on, or why he might smile through the humiliation of drinking it down?
Now you know.
It’s not just piss. It’s proof.
And I’m thirsty for it.
brother, i am right there with you. maybe not as addicted, but if Madam offers i will drink. she usually does not allow her guests to use me that way, but there are some exceptions. I’ve seen other subs who are punished by this, but for me it just feels right to accept what she is giving me – an honor.
First time my girlfriend pissed in my mouth, I was like wtf! She’d had me kneel while we were in the shower – I thought I was going to eat her out – and then her hot piss was filling my mouth. I was disgusted – then turned on. Like, I couldn’t stop thinking about it after that. Now i beg for it. I’m such a sick fuck, but she likes it so who cares?
pro-tip: protect your eyes and wear swim goggles, if seh’s okay with you looking like an idiot. Otherwise, close those eyes!
Mistress Heather and I had a short back and forth about this when I commented on her Golden Showers article:
“My group has adopted / continues to develop nourishment of the boys with Domme’s precious golden nectar. They served us well at last Sunday’s Super Bowl party so before wrapping things up we rewarded them with a nightcap …”
Piss is an acquired taste;. Just as most boys drink beer before maturing to whiskeys, they come to favor Ladies’ piss, even to crave it.
Re. eye protection: important in most cases but a properly trained urinal can simply mate his mouth to the vulva, receive and swallow full stream without leakage. Achieving this level of proficiency takes much practice but cake become second nature.
So, Ladies, what are you waiting for? Make it regular. I
I started krissi in the shower, just as Philip says here. Now with him (and my group’s boys, it’s second nature. They’re totally unabashed about dropping to the receptacle position to receive one or more bladders full.
Added benefit of such proficiency: Relieves Ladies from ever again having to deal with filthy public restrooms, and without worry of “perfuming” vehicle carpets, etc.
re: “nasty:”. This is part of the fantasy. But – and this is critically important – from a healthy person urine is sterile. The key: healthy. Golden nectar is not nourishment if the giver has a UTI or other illness.
About “regular:” my post narrating krissi’s recent punishment notes that his and attending boys refreshments were chilled with “pice.” Pice is frozen piss. Standard practice in my group. Every Domme maintains an ice tray at each of our homes. When a tray begins to run low, the boy immediately arranges to have it refilled so that all of our flavors are regularly savored by the boys.
I may draw criticism but, I’m not going to lie. Golden Showers isn’t for me. I will NOT judge people who participate in it however.