My Girlfriend’s Rules for Halloween: Shirtless, Locked, and Controlled

Halloween is one of my favorite times of the year, but not for the reasons most people think. For my girlfriend and me, it’s a time when we get to openly play with our dynamic in public, attending multiple kinky Halloween parties in the weeks leading up to the big night. Every year, she gets more creative with my costumes, showing off as much of my body as possible while reminding everyone—and especially me—of her control. And the best part? She changes my costume for each party, making sure I never get too comfortable, keeping me on my toes.

Her two rules for my costumes are always the same: I must be shirtless, and I must wear my chastity cage. It’s not so much about the cage being on display (though she has no problem if it is); for us, it’s about her control, knowing I’m locked away while she shows off her prized possession—me. Sometimes, the cage is completely hidden, and other times it’s subtly hinted at, like when I’m dressed in tight-fitting swim briefs. Either way, I’m always reminded of my place, and so is she, which is what makes the season so exhilarating.

Here are some of the most memorable costumes I’ve worn over the years. Each one a reflection of her creativity, her control, and my role as her submissive:

1. Tarzan

This costume is a classic. With nothing but a small loincloth, I’m left nearly naked, my chest and abs on full display. The simplicity of it only enhances her power, as she leads me through the crowd like her tamed jungle man. I know that under the loincloth, I’m locked, and she knows it too, constantly teasing me with little touches and whispers only I can hear.

2. Underwear Model

At one party, she decided I should be an ‘underwear model.’ I wore nothing but a pair of tight white briefs and a smile, with my abs and chest glistening under the lights. She made sure I kept my pose straight and confident while she made rounds, showing me off to her friends. Every touch, every glance, was a reminder of her control, even if most people didn’t know the full story.

3. Greek Slave

Draped in a toga that barely covered anything, I spent the night as her devoted slave. The toga gave her just enough control to reveal as much or as little of me as she liked. When she was feeling playful, she’d let it slip just a bit, hinting at what was beneath, but it was always clear who was in charge. I wasn’t just a costume—I was her property.

4. Shirtless Vampire

This one played more on the sensual side. I wore tight pants, no shirt, and fangs. She loved leading me around like her undead servant, always just a touch away from reminding me of the lock under my pants. While others admired my body, she reveled in the control that only we knew about.

5. Boxer

She dressed me as a boxer one year—no shirt, of course, just boxing shorts, gloves, and boots. The shorts were loose enough to keep things hidden but tight enough to remind me of my situation. As the night went on, she’d pull me closer, teasing about how I might not be ‘fighting fit,’ but I was still her champion. The crowd loved the look, but for us, it was all about the playful power dynamic.

6. Magic Mike

Probably one of the most revealing costumes, this one was all about the body. Tight pants, no shirt, and lots of attention. My girlfriend had me perform mock ‘stripper moves,’ much to everyone’s delight, and while most of the party saw me as just a fun, shirtless guy, she took every opportunity to remind me—and herself—that I was locked beneath it all.

7. Tight Swim Briefs

One of the kinkier, more playful costumes she’s come up with. I was dressed like a professional swimmer in nothing but tight, form-fitting swim briefs. These were designed to show off everything, and she loved making me walk through the crowd while playfully adjusting them. People probably noticed, but the cage was still discreet enough that it stayed our little secret—most of the time.

8. Cuckold Bull and Bull’s Boy

In one of the more on-the-nose cuckold-themed costumes, I was dressed as the ‘bull’s boy,’ and one of her friends, acting as the ‘bull,’ played the dominant role. I wore nothing but a simple collar, leash, and tight briefs, with my chest and abs completely exposed. My girlfriend relished in leading me around like a second-place prize, showing everyone that I was there to serve both of them. It was a night of teasing and fun, but also a powerful reminder of my place in our dynamic.

9. Shirtless Gladiator

This one had me dressed in a loincloth with sandals and leather straps crisscrossing my chest. As her gladiator, I was her strong yet submissive warrior. The outfit was revealing, but she kept me on a tight leash, making sure everyone knew who truly held the power.

10. Male Escort

In this costume, I wore an open suit jacket with no shirt underneath. The sleek look was suggestive of something more, and I played the role of her escort for the evening. The subtle control she exhibited as she guided me through the party, occasionally whispering reminders of my lock and my role, added layers of tension and excitement to the night.

11. Beach Bum

For a more casual event, she dressed me in swim trunks, flip-flops, and a lei. While the outfit seemed laid-back, the tightness of the trunks kept me aware of the cage underneath, and she’d make small adjustments throughout the night to ensure I stayed both comfortable and teased.

12. Jungle Boy and Safari Queen

Once again playing on the loincloth theme, this one had me as her ‘captured prey,’ with her as the dominant safari queen. I was shirtless and barefoot, my body on full display as she led me around, making sure everyone saw how much control she had over me. It was a playful reminder that even in the most primal of roles, I was still hers.

Each year, Halloween gives us a chance to play with our dynamic in ways that feel both exciting and natural. My girlfriend’s creativity in choosing my costumes, her insistence on showing off my body, and her constant reminders of who’s in charge make these parties some of the best nights of the year. Whether I’m fully exposed or just hinting at what lies beneath, the feeling is the same—I’m hers, proudly, locked away and on display for her amusement and pleasure.

And that, for me, is what makes Halloween truly thrilling.