My Femdom Marriage and My Work From Home Job

My Femdom Marriage is still relatively new. Our wedding was over 10 years ago, yet our transition into a female-led relationship didn’t occur until recently, during the 2020 pandemic. 

Suddenly thrust together 24/7 during the lockdown, we discovered that we worked better together when she led many aspects of our relationship. Not only did our sex life become 100 times more exciting and active than it had, but we’ve also experienced improvements in all areas of our lives.

My job has continued to allow me to work from home, and I don’t intend to ever return to the office! In fact, over these past couple of years, we have discovered some fantastic benefits to balancing my work life with our new femdom lifestyle.

Work From Home Submissive Husband

Like many people, my job turned remote in 2020, and we’ve never returned to the office. I have an upper-management role in a tech startup, managing a small team. I report directly to a vice president and interact daily with customers, vendors, and our leadership team. However, my true boss ended up being my wife!

Once we started changing our relationship, and I accepted her lead, it naturally extended to my daily work life. She doesn’t care about the specifics but ensures I am working hard and accomplishing my career objectives. 

Reward and Punishments

She expects me to inform her of my accomplishments and failures at work. She then decides the appropriate reward or punishment.  

Just knowing she cares is the reward itself. So when I have a big win, like a raise, positive review, closing a client, etc. – the first one I want to share the news with isn’t my boss – it’s my Goddess Wife. 

FLR Wife – She’s learning too

Being in a Femdom Marriage takes work, patience, and understanding from both partners. While being submissive is new to me, I keep in mind that leading in the relationship is relatively new to her. Regarding sex, I learned that open discussion is the fastest route to both of us getting what we want.

At one point in our relationship, I would have been too embarrassed to ask to be spanked. Even though I wanted it, I was afraid of what my wife would think. That’s too bad because we’ve discovered we probably both would have made this change much earlier in our marriage.

Now we have a policy to regularly check in with each other. First, we discuss the activities we’ve recently done, especially if we tried something new. Then, we ask if there is anything either of us wants to try and discuss further. It’s straightforward when you both enter with an accepting, open mind.

New Daily Routine

So, what’s it like to be a work-at-home sex slave? I have a new daily routine, ensuring I succeed in my career and service to my Goddess.

Morning Coffee, Breakfast, Inspection: My day starts with waking up before her, showering, and making the coffee and breakfast. I don’t get dressed yet; she wants me naked for inspection.

By the time she is up and joins me, I am expected to have everything ready. She grabs my balls as I pour her coffee, massaging and squeezing. Then she pulls her hand back for the sniff test – and I better smell fresh.

Lunch: While my work calendar dictates the schedule throughout the day, there are some specific times I’m expected to be in service to her. One of those is lunch – I’m expected to have her lunch ready on time. She also expects me to be available for whatever she wants, uninterrupted, for 30-minutes.  

This week she had me use my face-dildo mask, kneeling between her legs as she ate the turkey sandwich I prepared. It isn’t always sexual; another day, she made me sit through 30-minutes of horrible TikTok videos – one of her favorite torments. 

Panties Day: Another way she keeps me grounded is the occasional surprise panties day. She’ll instruct me in the morning to wear a particular pair of panties, no pants. Thankfully, zoom meetings are from the waist up!

One of her favorite ways to embarrass me is to make me wear a pair of pink, frilly panties whenever I have a meeting with an engineer who works for me. He’s a young guy, and I made the mistake of mentioning to her that some of his coworkers give him a hard time about becoming a male model. So now, she’ll occasionally make me tell her about his looks, describe what his cock must look like, and teases me about bringing him in as a bull to cuckold me.

That won’t happen – first; we’ve not tried cuckolding – at this point, it is simply dirty talk. Second, I’m a penultimate professional when it comes to my career. But I’m pretty sure I’ve blushed more than once when on a zoom call with him, getting distracted by my just-a-bit-too-tight panties, my dick pressing against them.

Her clicker: She has one of those simple number counter clickers and uses it throughout the day to keep track of my digressions. Five minutes late with lunch? 5 Clicks. Failure to make her cum when ordered? 10 clicks. One click for each minute it takes me to provide her a dick pic when requested. 

Evening Transition: At the end of the day, I’m expected to return to her side wearing nothing but my collar. If she decides I need to be punished for the number of clicks I received that day, I might get a spanking, whipping, or even the cane. Honestly, I think it depends on her day’s good or bad, more than how good or bad I was.

Keeping it Fun, Fresh, Sexy: Finding ways to include sexplay throughout the workday keeps me on my feet. Plus, we’re always trying something new, keeping our relationship and femdom marriage fresh, fun, and way sexier than anyone else I know!

The solution to Work-Life Balance

Working from home is hard. It can be easy to get out of balance when you’re always a step away from your work. You end up checking email all night, finishing that report at 9pm, or trying to get caught up working all weekend.

She keeps me balanced and reminds me that there is far more to life than work. I am encouraged to find ways to make work more efficient, so I can be off work on time. I’ve learned to better delegate tasks and prioritize so I can fit my job into as close to 40 hours/week as possible.

Essential guidelines for our Femdom Marriage

Essentially my wife and I have agreed that she has absolute power in most aspects. That might sound scary to most guys, but I trust and respect her ability to make the best choices.

There are a lot of things I still manage. For example, she hates dealing with money. So it is my responsibility to manage our finances. I’m punished or rewarded based on my ability to provide her what she wants when she wants it.

However, regarding my work, we agree that our femdom marriage cannot threaten my career. I am never expected to do anything that would endanger my standing with my coworkers. To this day, nobody but the two of us (and now all of you) know about our femdom marriage!

Although she expects me to be on time for lunch and be off work by 5pm, I will likely be required to change those times due to work obligations. She’s okay with that – but her clicker counts will be redeemed, usually as marks somewhere on my body.

Weekends are hers – punishments and rewards:

Another successful rule is that weekends are hers. I tend to work some over the weekend, but I am expected to be available for my wife’s pleasure as much as she wants. Often I receive my big reward for accomplishments that week. Sometimes it’s a significant punishment if I had a bad week. 

Femdom Marriage – Discovering What Works For You

This works for my femdom marriage, but it won’t work for everyone. Successfully entering a role-reversal relationship is challenging and only works when both parties are willing to join honest discussions about their desires and limits. 

I know how fortunate I am to have such a wife, a Goddess who essentially wants the same type of relationship that I do. I’m also incredibly privileged to have a job that allows me to work from home.

What about you? Are you in a Female Led Relationship or Femdom Marriage and work from home? Let us know in the comments how you incorporate your FLR relationship with remote work responsibilities!