Serving Her Pleasure: A Submissive Man’s Journey Through Cunnilingus

Originally published on March 7, 2024, and now updated for our special edition, “The Sub’s Oral Playbook: Secrets to Becoming Her Favorite Toy” is a continually growing guide written by submissive men, for submissive men. This invaluable resource offers essential insights into mastering oral service and elevating your skills in proper femdom devotion.

Cunnilingus, the art of oral sex performed on a woman’s genitalia, is an essential skill for any submissive man looking to please his partner. Not only does it show a willingness to serve and worship her body, but it also allows for a deep and intimate connection between the submissive and their dominant partner. In this article, I will provide a detailed guide on how to perform cunnilingus for submissive men, including how to please her, what happens when she reaches orgasm, and how to learn to drink her fluids.

Step 1: Setting the Scene

Before diving into the physical aspects of cunnilingus, it is crucial to set the scene for a pleasurable experience. Start by creating a comfortable and relaxing environment for your partner. This may include dim lighting, scented candles, or soft music playing in the background. Remember, the more relaxed and comfortable your partner feels, the more enjoyable the experience will be for both of you.

Step 2: The Art of Teasing

Once your partner is comfortable, it’s time to start building up the sexual tension and arousal. Begin by teasing her with light touches and kisses on her thighs, stomach, and breasts. This will help to stimulate her erogenous zones and get her in the mood for more intense pleasure. Take your time and pay attention to her reactions, as this will guide you in understanding what turns her on.

Step 3: Explore Her Genitalia

Now that your partner is aroused, it’s time to explore her genitalia. Start by gently kissing and licking her inner thighs, slowly moving closer to her clitoris. Pay attention to her reactions and adjust your pace and pressure accordingly. Use your fingers to gently spread her labia and expose her clitoris. This will help you to get a better view and access to her most sensitive area.

Step 4: The Art of Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is the key to unlocking your partner’s pleasure. It is a small, highly sensitive organ located at the top of the vaginal opening. Start by gently licking and sucking on her clitoris, using your tongue to create different sensations. You can also use your fingers to stimulate her clitoris while your mouth is occupied with other areas. Experiment with different techniques such as circular motions, up and down strokes, and sucking to find out what she enjoys the most.

Step 5: The G-Spot

Now that your partner is fully aroused, it’s time to move on to the G-spot. The G-spot is a small, spongy area located on the front wall of the vagina. It is highly sensitive and can lead to intense orgasms when stimulated correctly. Use your fingers to gently massage the G-spot while continuing to stimulate her clitoris with your mouth. Pay attention to her reactions and adjust the pressure and speed of your movements accordingly.

Step 6: The Power of Multi-tasking

One of the most important skills to master in cunnilingus is the art of multi-tasking. This involves using your mouth and hands simultaneously to provide maximum pleasure to your partner. While your mouth is focused on her clitoris, use your hands to stimulate her G-spot or other erogenous zones, such as her breasts or anus. This will intensify the pleasure and help bring her to orgasm.

Step 7: Adding a Toy

Incorporating a sex toy into your cunnilingus routine can add an extra element of pleasure for both you and your partner. Use a vibrator or a small dildo to stimulate her clitoris or G-spot while you continue to use your mouth and hands. Be sure to communicate with your partner and ask for her consent before introducing any new toys into the mix.

Step 8: The Build-Up to Orgasm

As your partner gets closer to orgasm, you may notice her body tensing up, her breathing becoming faster, and her moans getting louder. This is a sign that she is about to reach the peak of pleasure. At this point, it’s essential to maintain a consistent pace and pressure to help her reach orgasm. Be patient and continue to focus on her pleasure until she reaches climax.

Step 9: The Aftermath of Orgasm

Once your partner has reached orgasm, it’s important to provide aftercare and support. This may involve holding her, cuddling, or giving her words of affirmation and reassurance. Aftercare is crucial as it helps to build trust and intimacy between the submissive and their dominant partner.

Step 10: Learning to Drink Her Fluids

Learning to drink your partner’s fluids is not only a deeply submissive act, but it also shows a level of trust and intimacy between the two of you. If your partner is comfortable with it, you can ask for her permission to drink her fluids after she has reached orgasm. Start by gently licking and kissing her genitalia, and gradually move closer to her urethra. Use your tongue to collect and drink her fluids, and be sure to savor every drop. Remember to communicate with your partner and ask for their consent before attempting to drink their fluids.

In conclusion, cunnilingus is an art that requires patience, communication, and a willingness to serve your partner. By setting the scene, teasing, exploring her genitalia, and mastering the art of multi-tasking, you can bring your partner to intense orgasms and strengthen your bond as a submissive. Remember to always communicate with your partner, pay attention to their reactions, and most importantly, enjoy the experience of serving and pleasuring your dominant partner.