
Stretch. Clean. Present. Obey: Anal Submission

Let’s be clear from the start. I like fucking men. I like fucking them with my dick. Their real service begins when they spread for me and take it, fully, deeply, and without excuse. Yes, I enjoy their tongues, and I use their cocks when they’re useful. But if a boy can’t be opened for me, if he hasn’t trained his hole to be used, stretched, and surrendered, then frankly, he’s not ready to serve.
Penetration, for me, is the proving ground. There’s no pretending once my hips press to his ass. No fantasy, no theory. Just obedience in action. It is the moment he gives me everything, from his breath to his body. That is why training his ass is not optional. It is sacred duty.
So let’s get into it. You want to be ready for me? You want to be usable when I say kneel and present? Then read closely. Here’s how you care for and prepare your hole for my joy.
The Philosophy of Surrender
First, understand that training your hole is not just a physical task. It is an act of mental readiness. Every time you stretch, clean, or kneel in position, you are building more than elasticity. You are building availability. What I want is not just access. I want ease. I want readiness. I want yes in every part of your body. I want you open before I even unzip.
If I have to wait for you to “warm up,” I lose interest. If I smell something unclean, you’re dismissed. If you wince and push back against me when I start thrusting, then you have failed to do your work.
You don’t just stretch for me. You become stretched.
Step One: Clean, Thoughtfully, and Regularly
Let’s clear up one myth right away. You do not need to douche every day. In fact, over-cleansing can irritate your rectum, dry out sensitive tissue, and leave you less prepared for use. A disciplined sub isn’t reckless — he’s responsible.
Here’s what I expect from a boy who wants to be usable:
- Routine douching no more than 2–3 times per week, unless you’ve had a particularly heavy or messy bowel movement.
- Before a planned session, you should clean with care. That means at least 2–3 hours after eating, using warm water (not hot), and a simple bulb douche — no soaps or harsh enemas unless I direct you to.
- Insert the water gently, let it sit for a few seconds, then release. Repeat a couple times until the water runs clear.
- On non-douching days, stay clean with high-fiber meals, regular bathroom habits, and hydrating well. Your digestion is part of your submission.
You should never douche in a hurry. And you should never douche so often that you feel raw, dry, or sore. If you can’t serve because you over-cleaned, you’ve failed your task. Your job is to be clean and healthy, not just empty.
Remember: when I bend you over, I want confidence. I want to see a boy who knew he might be used today and took care of his body like it was mine. That’s how you earn trust — with clean, comfortable, well-prepared holes.
Step Two: The Stretching Protocol
If you can’t take 7 to 8 inches comfortably, we’re not there yet. And if you panic when I slide in thick, you haven’t trained properly. Stretching isn’t about seeing how much you can take. It’s about what you can take reliably, gracefully, and eagerly.
Here’s your basic weekly protocol:
Daily Training (15-30 minutes):
- Start with a warm-up plug: small and smooth. Insert it with lube after douching.
- Breathe deeply and practice full insertion with minimal tension. This is about getting your mind and sphincter relaxed together.
- After 5–10 minutes, switch to a medium-size plug (think 1.5 inches diameter).
- Stay in it for 15 minutes while in kneel-and-arch position, or bent over the arm of your couch. Let your body adapt. Wiggle your hips. Take pride in holding it deep.
Twice Weekly Deep Sessions:
- Use a larger plug or dildo. This is your girth training. Think 2+ inches diameter.
- Focus on the bottom-out sensation — where you feel the pressure deep in your gut. That’s where I will be.
- Train insertion and thrusting. Ride it. Fuck yourself. Make it messy. Then clean up with dignity.
If you want extra credit, sleep in your training plug once a week. Wake up with it still in place, and message me with a photo. That’s the kind of devotion that gets noticed.
Step Three: Positioning Practice
You don’t get to choose how I fuck you. I do. So you’ll need to be flexible and obedient in every position I enjoy:
- Face down, ass up: Spread those legs, arch your back, and tilt your hips for my full view.
- On your back, legs up: Learn to hold your knees behind your ears and present like a slut.
- On all fours: Keep your back straight and your hole puckered open.
- Standing, bent over: I should be able to push you against the wall and use you on command.
Practice these positions with your plugs. Learn how your body reacts, how to control your breath, and how to welcome penetration in silence or moan, depending on my mood.
Step Four: Free-Use Mentality
Here’s what I want — a boy who is always ready, always prepared, and never hesitates. That’s what it means to be free-use. When I say “present,” I want you open. When I tug your collar, I want you clean and stretched. When I climb on behind you, there should be no friction I didn’t ask for.
Being my sub means you are always under soft discipline. You don’t own your body anymore. You manage it for me. The lube you carry, the time you stretch, the way you sit throughout the day — it’s all part of staying usable.
And yes, sometimes I will test that. Without warning.
So ask yourself:
- Could I take her cock right now?
- Is my hole clean and welcoming?
- Would she be pleased with my preparation?
If the answer is anything but yes, you’ve got work to do.
Final Word: Your Hole Is Her Throne
Don’t ever forget: your ass is not your own. It belongs to the woman who owns your submission. It is her throne. Her weapon. Her reward. Your job is to care for it like a sacred temple of worship and a slut’s open invitation at the same time.
When I fuck a man, it is not about anatomy. It is about authority. I am not asking if I may. I am arriving. And you will thank me for every inch.
Now get to training. My cock doesn’t wait for the unprepared.
I dig the way you think, Miss.
They always taught me stretching was important in school.
Thank you for showing me another real world application.
Great read Miss Autumn as always.
Not sure where I place overall on this list of stages, but maybe between 2 and 3. But I am totally on board with the final 2, needing it, wanting it.
So I wonder, am I ready to serve?
This artcile is timely.
The weekend after his (lost wallet) punishment – which put skin and penis out of commission, but not holes – I had him drive me and Bull2 to a former roommate – Renee’s – place, about 3 hours away. For years, I’d promised to visit.
By weekend’s end the holes were overused. I’ve mentioned that I had him collapse a boundary that weekend. He was penetrated not only by dildos, at least a dozen times every day, Friday through Sunday.
She told our former roommate, Karen, all about it, about how she made krissi the duty cum dump for all male guests BEFORE they could enjoy a Lady.
According to krissi, now that he’s largely recovered from the bug he caught on the airplane, Karen isn’t going to be outdone by Renee …
She and I will talk about this today.