The Ten Pegging Commandments for Ultimate Pleasure

The Pegging Commandments: Ten Rules for Safe, Sexy, and Satisfying Strap-On Play

Recently, I hosted a party where my dear friend, Madam Nora, was in attendance. As we mingled, she noticed a piece of artwork on my wall—an elegantly framed list titled “The 10 Commandments of Pegging.” This wasn’t just any decorative piece; it was a meaningful gift from one of the ladies I have been mentoring. She crafted this list based on the rules I instilled in her during our training sessions. Intrigued, Nora asked if I would share these commandments with the magazine. So, dear readers, here they are—crafted with care, experience, and a deep appreciation for the art of pegging. Enjoy!

1. Thou Shalt Communicate Openly

Honest and open communication is essential. Discuss desires, boundaries, and expectations before engaging in pegging. Establishing a mutual understanding ensures that both partners feel comfortable and enthusiastic about the experience.

2. Thou Shalt Prioritize Consent

Consent is the cornerstone of all sexual activities. Both partners must explicitly agree to engage in pegging, and the submissive partner should always have the power to stop the activity using a safeword or other predetermined signal.

3. Thou Shalt Invest in Quality Equipment

A well-made, body-safe strap-on harness and dildo are crucial for a pleasurable experience. Consider factors like size, material, and comfort to ensure maximum enjoyment. Silicone dildos are often the best choice for hygiene and durability.

4. Thou Shalt Use Plenty of Lube

Anal penetration requires adequate lubrication to be comfortable and enjoyable. A high-quality, body-safe, water-based or silicone-based lubricant will help reduce friction and enhance pleasure.

5. Thou Shalt Start Slow

Rushing can lead to discomfort or pain. Begin with small, gentle movements, allowing the receiving partner to adjust. Gradually increase speed and intensity based on their feedback.

6. Thou Shalt Warm Up First

Anal play is best when preceded by warm-up activities. Using fingers, smaller toys, or engaging in external stimulation can help relax the muscles and make penetration easier and more pleasurable.

7. Thou Shalt Maintain Hygiene

Proper hygiene is non-negotiable. Wash toys thoroughly before and after use, and consider using condoms over dildos for easy cleanup. The receiving partner should also prepare their body as needed for comfort and confidence.

8. Thou Shalt Experiment with Positions

Different positions can impact comfort and pleasure. Positions like doggy style, missionary, and spooning offer unique sensations and control levels, so explore what works best for both partners.

9. Thou Shalt Not Forget Aftercare

Aftercare is essential to provide emotional reassurance and physical comfort post-play. Cuddling, discussing the experience, or simply taking time to reconnect can strengthen intimacy and trust between partners.

10. Thou Shalt Keep Exploring

Pegging is a journey of discovery. Stay open to trying new techniques, positions, and fantasies. Checking in with each other regularly ensures the experience remains fulfilling and evolves with your desires.

By following these ten commandments, you can create a pegging experience that is safe, sensual, and deeply satisfying. Whether you’re new to the practice or refining your skills, these guidelines will help you and your partner enjoy every moment with confidence and pleasure.