Today Is International Female Orgasm Day: A Celebration of Her Pleasure (and Her Power)
August 8 is International Female Orgasm Day, a holiday that originated in a progressive Brazilian town that decided to prioritize female pleasure. In 2007, the mayor of Esperantina declared the day official as part of a campaign to promote sexual equality and normalize conversations around women’s orgasms. The idea was simple. Men should focus on their partner’s climax, not just their own. It was part public health, part cultural revolution.
The day caught international attention. Over time, it’s become a global celebration of the female orgasm in all its forms—whether to promote sex education, celebrate pleasure, or simply indulge in some unapologetic fun.
But in the Femdom world, we don’t stop at awareness. We turn this day into an erotic commandment.
What International Female Orgasm Day Should Mean (In a Femdom Household)
This day isn’t just about encouraging women to cum. It’s about centering her orgasm, her pleasure, and her authority. If you’re living in a female-led relationship, or playing in one, this day becomes your cue to formalize the hierarchy.
1. Her Orgasm Comes First. Always.
If your household is truly female-led, this should already be the norm. But today, it’s absolute. She gets pleasured first, and as often as she wants. Oral service, toy play, extended teasing sessions—there should be no expectation of reciprocity. His only purpose is to bring her to bliss.
2. No Cum for Him. Only for Her.
Today may be a total orgasm denial day for the submissive. This is an excellent time to reinforce chastity rules or introduce them if you haven’t already. If he’s not caged, consider ordering abstinence or edging without release. His orgasm does not matter. His frustration is part of the offering.
3. Multiple Orgasms or Nothing
One orgasm is not enough. Not today. She deserves everything. Let her body be worshipped and teased until she’s melting. Use hands, toys, lips… whatever pleases her. The sub does not get to decide when it’s over. She does.
4. Obedient Orgasm Tribute
Some Dommes require a tribute before they allow their own release. That could mean physical service, verbal praise, or even cleaning tasks. Today is ideal for this dynamic. Make him serve. Let him beg. Perhaps, if he’s earned it, he can witness her orgasm. Or he can be sent away while she enjoys herself privately. Either way, her climax is not for his benefit. It’s for her own pleasure.
5. Pussy Worship Ceremony
Whether simple or elaborate, this ritual is essential. Strip him. Put him on his knees. Place yourself above him and let his mouth worship you with slow, devoted reverence. Have him speak aloud about what makes your pussy divine. Let the moment be sacred. Let it be humiliating. Let it be both.
6. Document the Event
If allowed, today is a great day to take photos or videos. Document her pleasure for training, memory, or future control. If filming is off-limits, then require him to write a report. He should describe every detail of how she orgasmed and what he did to help. His focus must stay on her experience—not his own.
FemdomU Suggests…
Make International Female Orgasm Day a recurring ritual in your dynamic. This isn’t just a one-day event. It’s a philosophy of service.
For Dommes: Declare it clearly. Your sub should understand that today is about your pleasure, your climax, and your needs. Whether you use his tongue, his labor, or your favorite toy while he kneels and watches, make sure he knows this day belongs to you.
For subs: Forget your own pleasure. Focus only on hers. Learn to crave the sound of her orgasm more than the sensation of your own. Let her satisfaction be the only climax you’re allowed to chase.
Her pleasure is the law. Her orgasm is sacred. Happy International Female Orgasm Day.
Great celebration here!
Used it (beginning last evening when we all swapped husbands), as kickoff to our revised pussy-tasting and intercourse proficiency evaluation schedule.
Rita joined me and Katie joined Jeannie so we had 6 sites for the 6 boys to cycle thru – for an hour’s worship of each Domme – tits-to-toes.
All video’d.
Collecting in an hour at Molly’s for a grand finale. Guests arriving now. We’ll each provide our assessment of the 6 of them aloud to the audience, then start the music ((playing on the audio system and sync’d to e-STIM butt plugs for the boys to dance to). They’ll walk the lawn presenting themselves to our guests while performing “lap dances!”
Fun.
As an added excitement , each guest has a textured stainless sound to insert into the cock eyes. The e-STIM are 4 channel units special for BDSM and the plugs are (expensive) new 3-pole ones 3 leads will be connected to the plug (to make their assholes dance). The 4th will dangle loose for Ladies to connect to their sounds so that as run them in and out of the penises current will flow to it via their prostates.
As I’ve said before, Molly has great imagination.
This is going to be great fun!!
More afterwards!!
Sounds like a lot of fun!
Oh, I forgot: videos made earlier in the day – of our diligent servants hard at work. – will be played in loop fashion on several HDTVs around the lawn.
The videographers are invited to collect a portion of their fee s from the boys directly.