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Learning from porn – Femdom video reviews

In this series I watch super hot femdom videos, then I try something I learned in the video and report back to you. I believe that great porn should inspire us to try something kinky. I hope you learn something too!

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This is a quick video, but I chose it for a review because it reminds me of what I do when I have a boy over for first time sex, and I want to find out if he’s going to be submissive. Sometimes you just don’t know, and this method ensures that you discover he’s going to be a good submissive boy, or if not, you at least get a good fuck out of it.

Lesson 1 - Set the trap

She has this guy on his back, naked, thinking he’s going to get laid. She put on some bondage gear, making him think things are going to get kinky. But in a couple quick moves, she slides the ball-gag off of herself and attaches it to him. Before he can really process what she’s doing, she adds the handcuffs. Now, he can’t get away, and he can’t complain – too much.

Lesson 2 - Tell him the rules

When he starts to complain or panic at the bondage, just tell him to “shush” and enjoy. She lets him know that she’s going to fuck him, and she’s in control. This is a key moment – does he seem to accept the rules, or does he continue to struggle, trying to get free? It doesn’t really matter, because at this point she can have her way with him and get a good fuck, even if he’s still protesting.

Lesson 3 - Do what you want

Having a guy naked, bound and gagged is one of the best things in the world. At this point she brings out the riding crop, which previously had been hidden, and he gets a real sense of his situation. If he’s already a submissive, he’ll take whatever you give him, and probably enjoy it. If he’s not going to submit and keeps fighting, have fun anyway! He’s yours until you’re done with him, so enjoy the fuck.

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I Tried It!

As I mentioned, this is a pretty standard scenario for me. But I decided to let this video inspire me to try out a new boy. Last night I went on a first-date with a guy who has been asking me out for awhile. He was acting all macho, but I had a feeling I could break him pretty easily.

I got him back to my place, we both stripped and I had him lay on the bed. I told him I’d be right back – and came out with the ball-gag and collar around my neck. His dick jumped when he saw me, and I could tell he thought he was going to get to do some rough stuff.

I pushed him back on the bed, climbed on top, and quickly attached the handcuffs. I did this first because I thought he might fight back, and I was right. He even started screaming some nasty words at me, so I quickly put the ball-gag in place.

I then let him know that I only fuck men who submit to me, and this would be his test. If he is calm and lets me do what I want, we’d be able to date again. If he fights me, I’ll get a good fuck out of him anyway and then send him on his way.

He wasn’t too thrilled with that, turns out he wasn’t ready to submit to a women, at least not how I need. So, I let him scream and glare at me while I rode his cock. Instead of the riding crop I had a bamboo cane that really stings. It really pissed him off when I would use it across his chest while I continued riding him. But his cock was hard, and eventually he came.

Just because he said so many nasty things, I removed the condom and emptied it’s contents all over his face. I eventually let him free after he calmed down. He even thanked me as he walked out my door – there might be hope for him yet!