The FemdomU WHIP
Conclave IV Voting Has Begun
The Discussion Period for Conclave IV has officially ended, and we now move into the Voting Phase. As of today, the full text of each resolution, along with the official discussion comments from the Dommes of the Conclave, is now viewable to all. We believe in...
No Pussy for Me
So, yeah. Our relationship has definitely entered a new phase. My wife Annie has mostly stepped back from her career, she’s not traveling like she used to, and she’s really leaning into her role as Associate Command Domme. Which means things at home have changed...
Domming Couples – The Unicorn Experience
Some of my favorite scenes have been with couples. There is a unique power in guiding two lovers at once, stepping into their intimacy, and holding space for their exploration. What draws me in is the intimacy. Couples share something sacred that I don’t have in my...
August Sub Report
So, August was sort of a down month in lots of ways. Both staff and volunteers were a bit less active with vacations, kids out of school, illness, and family obligations. That’s not to say work didn’t get done... there’s been a lot of writing, plenty of prep for...
Conclave IV Is Officially Open
As Director of the Conclave, I’m delighted to announce the opening of Conclave IV—our mini-session for September 2025. Though this is a mini-agenda, this session carries powerful decisions that will shape the future of FemdomU. Here’s what’s on the agenda: 1....
Love, Manipulation, and the Rise of a Queen
As a Domme, I aspire to be a woman who moves through the world with clarity, boundaries, and authority. I always believed my power would shield me, that my confidence and command would repel anyone who tried to manipulate me. Relationship-wise, I felt untouchable,...
Talking About Anal Play with Your Provider
If anal play is a part of your life, your doctor needs to know. You don’t have to give every detail, but mentioning receptive anal activity helps your provider recommend appropriate STI testing, vaccinations, and screenings for issues like hemorrhoids or fissures....
Fetishes That Fascinate Me: The Kinks I Am Exploring.
Being a Domme is an endless journey of discovery, and there have been kinks that surprised me. They are the ones that challenge my expectations, that make me feel alive in ways I never imagined, that deepen my sense of power and control. To explore fully, you have...
Celebrating 90 Days of Service – Thank You, BoxingGloveLove
Note: I meant to publish this Tuesday to celebrate his 90-days - BGL I'm sorry, it was drafted but never made it to publish. Today marks 90 days of service from one of our standout volunteer subs, BoxingGloveLove, and the Dommes of FemdomU want to take a moment to...
The Truth About Poppers and Anal Play
Poppers are sometimes used during anal scenes to relax muscles and intensify sensation—but they’re not without risk. Inhaling poppers can cause dizziness, nausea, lowered blood pressure, and in some cases, blackouts or damage to vision. They also make it harder to...


























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