The FemdomU WHIP
Scented Products Aren’t for Genitals
Those heavily scented body washes and “extra fresh” soaps might smell good, but they are not designed for sensitive genital skin. Fragrances and harsh detergents can disrupt your natural pH, cause irritation, dryness, or painful burning. This is especially...
Night Shift Toy
I travel a lot. Hotels blur together. Same beige walls, same bad art, same polite smiles at the front desk. But there is one thing I always check before I unpack. Overnight staff. If a hotel keeps bell or valet staffed all night, it usually means one thing. Young...
Our Sexy Valentine
It was just me and her for Valentine's Day, alone in our apartment with the lights dimmed low. I spent the afternoon preparing chicken marsala, the mushrooms simmering in wine as she watched me from the kitchen doorway, her eyes hungry for more than just dinner. We...
valentine’s night service
valentine’s day looks a little different for this duck. tonight i am not just preparing the scene. i am part of it. Madam has me in my special sex-butler outfit. tailored vest, crisp white shirt, fitted trousers, collar gleaming at my throat. it is formal,...
CFNM Golf – Looking Ahead (and Rose-Colored Glasses)
Harper, I, and Mary Anne (another of our Nine hole Ladies golf group) interviewed 3 wanna-be caddies yesterday. At a back room off of the Ladies Lounge at the club. Kept the door locked. Boys were admitted one at a time, told to strip and stood in front of our...
Thinking About Marks and Permanence
Ben asked me recently if I would ever want to mark him with a tattoo. It was not a demand or a push. It was a quiet, respectful question, asked from a place of devotion rather than impatience. He is doing very well, but we are nowhere near the point of permanent...
Lube Expiration Dates Matter
Yes, lube can go bad. Over time, the ingredients break down, and if the bottle has been opened and not stored properly, bacteria can grow. Using expired lube can lead to irritation, infections, or just a messy, ineffective experience. Always check the expiration...
Super Bowl Sunday
So the day is here. The Ladies are excited but nervous. The party is at a place we’ve never been before with a [swingers] group that only Mollie and Katie know; and by their invitation after one of the couple’s son fucked all of our lights out a couple months...
My First Jerkoff Race
I never thought I’d be writing a post with that title, but here we are. This was my first jerkoff race, and yeah, it was every bit as humiliating as it sounds. We met this couple through kink spaces online. They were friendly, experienced, and very clearly...
Welcome Volunteer Sub usagi
I’m happy to welcome usagi as our newest volunteer sub with the Magazine. He’s already showing signs of being very useful behind the scenes, especially with website related work, and that kind of support is always valuable around here. He’s still feeling things out...












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