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madam’s new estate: early plans and cellar conversions
got to take a peek at some of the design plans for madam’s new estate, and wow, she’s got some big things in motion. lots of renovations are underway, and while we’re still expecting to move in late summer, it might not happen until september. here’s the wild part....
Don’t Share Toys Without Sanitizing
Body fluids carry bacteria and viruses. If you’re using insertables or impact toys on multiple partners, always sanitize between uses. Sharing is only caring if you clean first.
What FemdomU Taught Me About Myself
I used to think submission was just about sex. About getting off on being controlled, humiliated, used. And yeah, I still love all that. But being part of FemdomU showed me something deeper. That submission isn’t just what I do, it’s who I am - in the ways I...
Conclave Punishment Session #2 for thing2
Last night, everything aligned for us to carry out thing2’s second Conclave-mandated punishment session. My husband was home, and the timing worked perfectly. This is the ongoing punishment ordered by the Conclave for thing2 breaking my husband’s family heirloom....
Annie Was Away… and I Got Assigned
Annie was away for a week, and honestly, I was a little terrified she was going to push me into the next big "adventure" she’s been training me for. Thankfully, that didn’t happen. Instead, she sent me over to her friend June. No elaborate scene or challenge—just...
Why I Failed, and Why I Care
This is not the post I wanted to write. But it’s the one I owe. I failed. I missed deadlines. I disappeared. I let work pile up, let communication fall apart, and let down the people who trusted me to show up. Not just once, but consistently. I broke the rhythm...
Know the Signs of Sub Drop
Sub drop is real and it can hit hard—fatigue, sadness, anxiety, or feeling disconnected are all common symptoms after a scene. Dommes should check in, and subs should communicate how they’re feeling. Recognizing the signs early helps prevent emotional...
behind the scenes with duckie
madam had me show her my recent blog posts, and she pointed out that i kinda made it sound like i wrote all the articles. oops. she suggested i share a little bit about our process. totally fair. i still think i got a lot of work done this week, but no, i didn’t...
How I Fucked Up My Life, and the Friends Who Helped Me Crawl Out
If I’m going to return to my role at the Magazine, I have to be honest about what happened. Madam Nora made that clear. No more excuses. No more hiding. Just the truth, raw and unfiltered. When my girlfriend left me, I acted like I was the victim. But that’s not...
Spotlight on High-Impact Resolutions from Conclave II
As we cast our votes for Conclave II, I wanted to take a moment to highlight the resolutions I believe carry the greatest impact, especially for our wider community and for the subs who serve us. That’s not to say any of the resolutions are unimportant. Items like...


























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