The FemdomU WHIP
May
2026
3
Monitor for Sub Frenzy
Sub frenzy is that intense rush where you want to say yes to everything, serve everyone, and push yourself further than you normally would. It can feel exciting and empowering, but it often leads to poor decisions, ignored limits, and eventual burnout. You might...
May
2026
2
Saving Money the Smart Way
We’ve been tightening things up financially around my house, and bringing Ben into the household is starting to pay off in ways I fully expected. When you have a properly trained service sub, you start looking at everyday expenses very differently. I’ve been...
May
2026
1
BDSM Play Parties are NOT Sex Parties
Happy Friday. With being in the BDSM Community for many years, there is some confusion with the BDSM Play parties vs Straight/Gay Sex Parties. I have been part of KT Events for the last 12 years in Houston,TX. We have strict rules people who attend are required to...
Apr
2026
30
Toxic /Nasty Men on Snapchat
I have recently gotten back on Snapchat, which I am asking myself why. I use Snapchat to promote events I am part of, promote this site and blog, also my advice column. I have been getting texts, calls from these dusty ass random men, asking if I am single (which I...
Apr
2026
29
Put This On and Be Ready
I am almost always the first one up in our house. Usually by a couple hours. It’s just how I’m wired. Coffee, quiet, maybe some time to myself before the day starts. Last weekend, though, Annie surprised me. My alarm went off and she was already awake. That...
Apr
2026
29
Screening and Dealing With Time Wasters
I have been a Professional Dominatrix over 17 years. I do have quite a few time wasters, guys who just want to waste my time. Over the years I have learned pretty early in the screening process if they are serious or not. When I screen, I ask how old they are, if...
Apr
2026
28
My sub ‘scrappy’ got a job
scrappy has a new assignment as part of his training, and this one takes him outside the house. thing1 had a connection at a local strip club, one of those places that surprises you a bit. Good atmosphere, a proper bar, and yes, they’re known for their steak...
Apr
2026
28
are you really naked all day?
yes. duckie is really naked all day. i get asked this all the time, and yes. duckie is always naked at the estate. no “just in my room” rule, no restricted areas, no hallway panic moments. this is a fully committed, all-access, no-clothes lifestyle. so naturally,...
Apr
2026
27
Conclave 5 Opens This Week
We have finally set the opening for Conclave 5, and it begins this Wednesday. The page is already in place, but the real content is still locked. Starting one minute after midnight on Wednesday, the full agenda will appear and the Dommes of the Conclave will gain...
Apr
2026
27
Eleven’s Challenge Series – Part 3
So, following on from the mini-challenges set by Miss Geena and Mrs Annie after my first year as a volunteer, the next task came from Miss Autumn — and this one started differently. Instead of jumping straight in, she asked me to send a single photo that captured...
I believe you described the perfect handjob. Slow, deliberate, and heavenly. Any one who experiences something like this should cherish…
As someone who enjoys pain i loved this amazing article. When I am spanked, or my testicles are squeezed it…
I am someone who is immensely interested in CBT I never really thought if it as discipline. I take such…
I have not experienced much, but I experienced being blindfolded. Unfortunately it was not with someone who was fully into…
The line about his mind being 'soft' right when he wakes up is so delightfully accurate! It's basically the psychological…