The FemdomU WHIP
20 Applications. 5 Followed Instructions. 0 Matches.
I tried the Burned Haystack dating method. Apparently, the haystack burns slower than expected. I left the application open a month longer than I originally said I would. Over that time, I received twenty applications. Only five people followed the instructions....
K’s Suggestion
Had my buddy “K” over last night. Annie had already turned in early, so it was just the two of us hanging out in the living room. We met about a year ago when he reached out to me online. Turns out he’s local here in Portland and part of the kink community. That’s...
Owning My Desires
I am just going to say it plainly. Part of being a strong, sexually dominant woman is being comfortable enough to admit what you enjoy. Confidence is not only about control. It is also about honesty with yourself. I enjoy a controlled threesome. I like the...
Keep a Scene Bag for Emergencies
Whether you are playing at home, at an event, or in a hotel, having a basic scene safety kit within reach is smart practice. Include gloves, condoms, quality lube, a safety cutter for rope, antiseptic wipes, and basic pain relievers. If you use specific toys or...
When They Find Out
There’s a big reason I keep my magazine work somewhat anonymous from my daily life. Not because I’m ashamed. Not because I’m hiding. But because once people know, everything changes. Last weekend I was at a party. Normal crowd. Drinks. Music. Laughing. And somehow,...
Chastity 101 – The Day I Stopped Counting the Hours
There’s a moment in longer chastity holds where time changes. At first, you count. Then you adjust. Then… you settle. Assignments 7 and 8 were the first time I stopped feeling like I was “doing a task” and started feeling like I was living inside it. Assignment 7 –...
Welcome turtle
Please join me in welcoming our newest volunteer sub, turtle. He comes to us with prior experience as a submissive and a clear willingness to step forward as one of our nude male models. That combination is always exciting to see. I appreciate when a boy arrives...
And will you be caged, or allowed to hang free?
My girlfriend dragged me to get fitted for a tux for her cousin's wedding in March. Since I wasn't part of the wedding party, I thought I'd have some freedom in choosing my style, but she insisted on coming along "to make sure you don't pick something ridiculous."...
Disciplining Her Husband
One of my very good friends discovered that her husband was going to be on business in Chicago at the same time I'd be traveling nearby. She arranged for us to meet - she said he could use some of my special discipline. I knew what she meant - I'd fucked him, sat...
5 ways I plan to improve as a submissive man
I am turtle, 53 years old, new to femdom but been submissive and devoted to the women in my life for as long as I can remember. The ways I intend to improve as submissive male are: Openness I will be open about my limits, my intentions, my interests, my...
























So I started reading this thinking my god by comparison I’m positively feral. But I carried on reading and maybe…
I agree with you Zeek, there's nothing to be ashamed of, i'm true and honest with myself, i'm harming no…
Wow, Mistress Heather, sounds like you have one lucky sub!!!
duuude, where's my car?!? haha, sorta inside joke. Happy 2 years, you're awesome and can't wait to have another adventure…
Hello Mistress, I haven't said hi yet. I'm Levi, an author here. Oh boy, I have feelings on this! I'm…