Why You Should Turn Your Boyfriend Into a Femdom Cum Eating Slut
7 Reasons To Make Him a Slave to Femdom Cum Eating
Plus 5 Ways to Make Him Take his First Taste of Semen
Making your submissive boyfriend (or fiance, husband, houseboy, etc.) eat his own cum is essential to dominating your man. First, I discuss why and when you should be feeding him cum.
Not sure how to start? Don’t worry; I have you covered with # ways to make him take his first taste – it’s easier than you might think!
I make every man eat his cum
I can safely say that any male with whom I have had a dominant relationship has been made to eat his own cum. I do this for various reasons, but mostly because I can. It helps create the power dynamic necessary to fully control and subjugate him. I don’t do this every time, but something I leave in my “toolbox” to bring out when the time is right.
How you use these guidelines will depend on the type of femdom relationship you have with your submissive. If you roleplay occasionally, it can be a terrific way to surprise him with something new and taboo. On the other hand, if your man is fully submissive to you, it can be a great way to control, humiliate, punish and even reward him.
Why is it Taboo for Straight Men To Eat Their Cum?
Chances are, most guys will not admit to tasting their cum. In our culture, it is a taboo topic. There are two main reasons this is such a hard thing for guys to admit to doing.
1. When males learn to masturbate, they often feel guilty about their actions. Many young boys jerk off and then quickly clean up the evidence. They have conditioned themselves to believe that their semen is nasty, filthy, and must be cleaned immediately. Too bad – think of all that tasty cum going to waste!
2. There’s a misconception that eating cum will make him gay. There’s nothing further from the truth. There are many benefits for straight men eating their cum that have nothing to do with homosexual activities. Not to mention, how many women have tasted themselves on a man’s cock after fucking him?
Here are my 7 reasons why Femdom Cum Eating is an integral part of FLR and Femdom relationships
Reason 1 – He’s already done it.
The truth is, most guys have probably already tasted their own cum at some point. At the time of publishing this article, a non-scientific poll on the website GirlsAskGuys had a response of over 1800 males, with 56% admitting that they had tasted their cum. Make sure to enter your vote to see the updated total.
Reason 2 – He Wants it
Chances are your man secretly craves being turned into a cum eating slut. Once you discover his genuine desire, you can use it as a punishment or a reward.
Reviewing tags on popular porn-site Xvideos shows Femdom Cum Eating is one of the top searches within the femdom niche, sitting at over 175,000. A quick review of videos on our sister-site FemdomWish with the Cum Eating tag also brings up many popular videos.
Reason 3 – A new way to subjugate him.
If your man doesn’t like eating his cum, you have a new way to punish and humiliate him. Giving him an order to clean up after himself, using his tongue, can have a severely degrading effect on some men. For these guys, make sure to use this punishment sparingly!
I’ve discovered that even the men who don’t seem repulsed by tasting their semen respect the power dynamics inherited by following my order.
Reason 4 – Preparing him for cuckolding
If you’re interested in a cuckolding scene or relationship, making his first taste his own semen is a necessary first step. Get him used to the taste. Make him accustomed to being ordered to eat cum. It is hard for a male’s sexual drive to be strong after he is finished ejaculating. He’s often programmed to be done once he shoots his load and often loses any “kinky” tendencies. It takes a solid, strong domme to enforce cum eating instructions.
Reason 5 – His Self Improvement
Being dominant over a submissive male comes with responsibilities, one of which is ensuring his self-improvement. Therefore, it is up to us to shape him into the proper submissive we want him to be.
First, when he’s regularly eating his own cum, he’s more likely to do things to improve the scent taste. We know that diet directly impacts the smell and flavor of his semen. So when he’s aware of what his semen tastes like, he’ll be more likely to improve his diet, such as adding fruit, cinnamon, peppermint, or parsley.
Next, suppose you’re correctly using cum-eating to punish or reward your submissive. In that case, you can use it for behavior modification. Help your man become a better submissive through proper training.
Reason 6 – There are Health Benefits
This one might belong as a sub-heading under Reason 5, as there are potential health benefits to him eating his cum.
“Seminal plasma (the fluid that provides nutrients and protection for sperm, consisting of a complex range of organic and inorganic constituents) may have many health benefits… swallowing semen is actually healthy for you.”
–Kimberly Resnick Anderson, a certified sex therapist.
Among those possible health benefits of eating semen are elevated moods, reduction in anxiety, and better sleep. There’s even some evidence that it can help boost energy and memory.
Reason 7 – It is all about Your Pleasure
The final reason I’ll give you for turning your man into a cum-eating bitchboy is all about you – It’s just damn fun and powerful!
One of my favorite things is to have him fuck me and not give him permission to cum as he’s begging. Eventually, he can’t help but shoot his unallowed load into me. I then admonish him as I sit on his face and make him clean me up. I usually don’t get off until he’s also made me orgasm.
Here are 5 ideas to make him take his first taste of cum
Now that you are convinced it is necessary to make him eat his cum, at least occasionally, let’s talk about how you will do it. Many dommes will find it easy – they already have their submissive trained to obey their every command. However, if you’re on the other end of the spectrum, maybe still figuring out what your femdom relationship rules are, you might want to consider one or more of the following ideas:
#1 Start slow with his pre-cum.
One of the most successful times to get him to do whatever you want is before he has cum. First, make him crazy by edging him; eventually, he’ll do anything you say. Next, use your fingers to wipe some of his pre-cum from the tip of his dick. Then, without hesitation, insert those fingers into his mouth.
This is an easy entry method into teaching him how to eat cum. Many people prefer the taste to the actual final load. Encourage and give him positive feedback for licking his fluids off your fingers. Repeat this a couple of times before letting him finally shoot his load.
#2 The Creampie Kis
This might work for those newer to femdom or perhaps only practice femdom during roleplay. First, you give him a blowjob and then capture the cum in your mouth. Then, without hesitation, move up and kiss him, transferring his semen to his mouth.
He may balk at this, and you may want to be a bit more aggressive, holding his face in place and forcing your tongue in his mouth. Ensure he gets his entire load and, preferably, swallows.
#3 Have him masturbate on you
Many scenarios work here. Forcing him to masturbate, or having him fuck you and pull out, or even titty fucking him. Feel free to be creative. The key is to have him shoot his load on some part of your body. Then, order him to clean it up with his tongue.
Consider playing into his desires. For example, if he’s an ass man, have him shoot his load all over your cheeks. Or if he’s into breasts, it is sexy to have him lick himself off your tits.
#4 Tie him down
This one might be a bit more drastic, but it certainly works in the correct situation. It involves bondage, so you’ll need something to tie him down, ensuring his hands and feet are immobilized. The key is to make sure you have access to his dick. It’s also best to blindfold him.
During your session, do whatever you want with him. Bring out all the whips, paddles, and floggers you want, and go at it! Once I get them tied down, I have difficulty ending my playtime. But all good things must end, and you must remember your ultimate goal – to make him eat his cum!
Once you’re ready, make him ejaculate however you want. Just be prepared to catch it. Gather up as much semen in your hand as possible. Then, bring your hand to his mouth and shove your fingers in. He may fight back, so be prepared to be forceful. You could consider slapping his face with your other hand, ensuring he knows his place. Don’t back down – tell him all he needs to do is lick his cum from your hand and swallow.
You could also continue stroking his over-sensitive dick until he obeys. Post orgasm torture can be an excellent tool to make him agree to about anything!
#5 Fuck and Facesit
My all-time favorite. Pretty self-explanatory – let him fuck you and cum inside, then sit on his face and have him clean you out. I usually make them work until they’ve cleaned everything and made me orgasm.
This method is excellent for those reluctant boyfriends who say they want to be your submissive but then balk at things like eating cum when ordered.
Of course, very few of my submissives get to stick their dick in me. A likely scenario is to fuck a “bull” and let him cum in me, then I ride my submissive’s face. This is, of course, a common scenario in cuckolding relationships for more advanced dommes to attempt.
Adjust based on his reaction
Once you’ve made him eat his semen, watch his response. If it is something he seems to not enjoy, you’ve discovered a powerful tool in your discipline routine. Make sure to use it sparingly. Or not! If you’re into severely disciplining your submissive, try making him masturbate and eat his cum in front of you daily for an entire month!
If he seems to accept it without complaining, you are well on your way to training him to be a perfect submissive. Femdom cum eating is something you don’t have to use all the time, but make sure to work it into your rotation, constantly reminding him he is yours to do what you want.
If you suspect he enjoys eating cum, you have something compelling to hold over him. If you’re into humiliating him, this gives you great material to work with. You may consider advancing your relationship and turning him into a cuckold slut.
Bonus Cum Eating ideas – Here are 4 advanced methods
Once you’ve used your power as a dominatrix to make him eat cum, here are some advanced techniques you might want to consider trying:
#1 Long Distance CEI
First, when we mention CEI, we’re talking about Cum Eating Instructions. A popular tag in porn usually involves the dominatrix giving him instructions on jerking off, edging him until he begs to cum. Once given permission to shoot his load, he is provided instructions on how to eat it. Often the male will be ordered to talk about how it tastes.
This is an excellent method for long-distance relationships. If you can talk to him on the phone, or even better, over facetime or zoom, use your feminine powers to exert your control. When you watch him lick his semen up, you’ll know he’s putty in your hands.
However, this can be a tough order to follow for long-distance submissives. Most professional phone and online dominatrixes will tell you that new clients almost always talk about wanting to be forced to eat their cum during an intake discussion. However, many guys end up backing out when the actual moment arrives. You may want to tell him that if you order him to do something, such as eat his cum, and he refuses, there will not be another opportunity!
#2 Position him Upside Down, and his dick pointed at his mouth.
This takes a physically fit submissive to perform well. Having him positioned upside down, on the back of a couch, or on the headboard of your bed can work. The key is that his penis needs to be aimed toward his mouth. Have him masturbate, or help him along and order him to catch his load in his mouth. There can be a punishment if he misses any.
#3 shoot his load into his food
Another great way to degrade and assert dominance is to make him shoot his load into his food. Then, order him to eat every bite, or he’ll endure further punishment.
I recall a time I was feeling frustrated with a guy I was dating. He was starting to push back against my dominance in little petty ways. So, to put him in his place, I had him prepare a big, expensive steak dinner (on his dime). As he brought out the perfectly prepared steaks with all the trimmings, I ordered him to strip and masturbate at the table. Then, when he was ready to cum, I commanded him to shoot his load on his plate.
Most of his cum landed on his steak and over his baked potato; he was getting pretty good with his aim by this point. The bit that landed on the table cloth he quickly wiped up with his finger, then smeared it on his roll. I was satisfied and told him he could sit and eat his dinner. He was humiliated but proceeded to eat his steak dinner ala cum. Our dinner guests, a couple of my best friends, never took their eyes off the entertainment as they dug into their dinners! 🙂
#4 Make him drink it in his cocktail
Finally, consider making him masturbate and create a cocktail with his special ingredient. Semenology: The Semen Bartender’s Handbook has several recipes, including a Semen Rimmed Margarita, Mexican Cumslide, and a Pina Cum Laude.
This works in lots of situations. Make him masturbate into a container, then have him prepare drinks. He’ll add a unique ingredient to his own, then watch as he enjoys his drink.
Conclusion – Femdom Cum Eating
Making your submissive eat his own cum is a powerful way to assert your dominance over him. There are so many benefits to you and him; there’s no reason to avoid this kinky activity.
What do you think? Are you a femdom mistress who has successfully used cum-eating in your scenarios? What’s worked for you?
Guys – we want to hear from you too. Have you ever tried eating your cum?
This pretty much is how I was turned into a cum eating slut! I used to eat my own, just once in awhile, because it felt extra taboo. But my first dominant girlfriend got me to eat it regularly. Honestly, I kinda like it…
Honestly, the thing I have the hardest time with is I want his cum – It’s mine. I don’t want to feed it to him because I’m greedy, and I want it for myself!
I’m a cum eating slut. my girlfriend made me eat her out after cumming inside her – it wasn’t so bad. Not something I do all the time, but when she wants me to I can.
i am 99% sure all guys have tasted their own cum at some point. the first time for me was because I needed to dispose of my “evidence” at a slumber party in middle school. the other guys had fallen asleep, and i snuck onto a couch and jerked one out. then realized i had nothing to wipe it on so ate it.
yeah sure tried it when i was like 12 but yuck. most girls spit too.
I know I did this on my own when I was younger. My wife tried this on me after reading this article, and she’s now using it as a punishment for me. It isn’t the worst thing she does, but it isn’t something I tend to want.
I have not try to eat my own.cum so far. But from the above mentioned subject,it necessary to eat his own cum to become a more submissive to a dominant partner.,but it is taboos to eat cum and is more humiliating act upon a loving, but submissive husband
But want to be more submissive to my partner ., but so far I am not interested to eat cum.
Can I get some advice please
I’ve never tried it, but would happily do so if instructed to. It’s healthy and it’s got to taste better than apple cider vinegar.
It’s important to keep your boys making plenty; so there’s enough to go around. I love cum (although the boys do get tasks to tailor theirs for the consumer). and it’s so sexy to play with it on the tongue.
This said, Krissi’s eaten plenty: his own and others’.
Years ago , as part of developmental training – I had him cum twice a day —on the floor – and lick it all up – and when he was traveling to send snapshots . For him , it’s second nature.
I’ve never not seen my dominant friends’ husbands show reluctance; so presume they’re similarly well trained.
Todd loves my smelly feet. I wanted Todd to eat his cum and swallow it for me
The compromise: I allowed him to cum on my feet and lick it off
👍. Good start. Now, progress thru all your other body parts, and then on, and on.
Never tasted my own cum in past but my mistress finally made me swallow my whole load and now she makes me eat my cum from time to time too but the first time was the most memorable. She tied me to bed frame but we have done this bondage sex few times before, however this time she surprised me with this O-ring shaped mouth gag we got earlier for oral play and told me that this time instead of having sex like usual, she’s just going to make me eat my cum. I kind of protested a bit (but not really because I was so horny the idea while seemed a bit gross, turned me on) and tried to turn this into a joke but she just fastened strap at the back of my head and started to jerk me off indeed. Just like she said, we didn’t fuck and instead she made me cum into a tall glass, also squeezed every drop out of my dick and waited until I’m limp and no longer horny. That took like 2 minutes or so and then she sat in a way so my head was between her thighs to ensure I can’t move or turn around and then she started to slowly pour the content of that glass straight into my wide-open mouth. It took a while as she poured a bit, then waited until I swallow and then pouring more and again waiting for me to swallow. It tasted salty and ripe. She kept me for a while to feel taste left afterwards.
I absolutely needed this. I think I’m glad she didn’t bother to start slowly because I would probably never do this and just give up. I still don’t like the taste, but I like how she is in control. I know it sounds strange but it’s love-hate thing. Hate eating it but love when she randomly makes me do it.
Not going to lie here but that sounds like a perfect moment between you and your Mistress, head held between her thighs accepting a gift that she had granted to you.
#YesPlease!
I try everything but I can’t accepting eating cum do you have any powerful solution to outcome fear .
I never tried cum eating before. But on 31st Dec, I tried eating my cum with the order given by Mistress. First, I felt disgusting looking at it but I wanted to improve and cross my limits, I consumed a full load of my cum without leaving a drop. I enjoyed it. It shows our submissive and devotion to our mistress. I understand that semen can taste good by following healthy diet.
I’ve been a cum slut for a long time and always love to watch her reaction as she watches me eat my cum out of her pussy, off her body or when she shares my cum in her mouth with me.
I don’t know if you know how accurate your web site is. I hope this story is not too long.
In 1977, “Ann of Clifton Park” dominated me when I was 30 years old. Her language is toned down for this story. She was a “hot wife” and was sharing photos and sound recordings (done by a female assistant) of what men were willing to do FOR HER with her husband.
In 10 minutes at the bar, she turned the conversation to sex. In 15 minutes, we were headed to the motel room for the 2 most intimate pleasures that a woman can ask a man to perform for her in her second erogenous zone.
In week 2, I was told to be in the room at 9 PM sharp, naked, and on my knees WITH an erection. That is when she introduced me to ”eating cum” from her pussy. In week 3 she used face sitting to further dominate me.
After that, she turned to a woman’s joy of WATCHING a man ejaculate and then “eat his cum”. By week 4, I was her cuckhold. In that week she made me “eat my own cum” using Position #2 with me Upside Down, and my dick pointed at my mouth with her assistant taking pics. She said that I had to make myself ejaculate. At her suggestion that she wanted me to ”taste my cum”, I ejaculated. The idea that, SHE WANTED to WATCH me ejaculate and then “eat my own cum” was the most erotic of all.
These 2 women were experienced at this game.
After that they made me cum on their hands, feet, breasts, and asses and then delighted in commanding me to “eat my cum”.
On several occasions she had her assistant get down on her hands and knees with her beautiful naked ass raised. Then she commanded me to cum on her ass hole and to “eat my cum”. They both delighted in that one. My hot wife taunted me about “licking it like a lesbian”.
On occasion, my hot wife often commanded her assistant to take off her panties and spread her legs to take a pic of the cum in her pussy. Then she commanded me to, ”Get in there and eat that cum”.
Most women don’t understand the POWER in THEIR WORDS when they OPENLY EXPRESS THEIR EROTIC DESIRES. She was the only woman that ever told me that she “needed a man that wanted to see, smell, and taste her pussy” after she already had sex. She also made me kiss her after “eating cum” from her pussy so she could “know what her pussy tasted like after having sex”.
My sexual needs were satisfied by being enslaved to my hot wife’s desires. There was no abuse or humiliation. My #1 pleasure was “eating my own cum” while two women watched with obvious joy. #2 was “eating cum for a woman”. #3 was licking a woman’s asshole which was also included in face-sitting. I never felt more satisfied as a man.
Multiple screaming orgasms are a good reason for women to ask their man to “eat his cum”.
In 1995, I had a woman that gave me a blow job before I went to work in the morning. She also kissed me, making me go to work with the taste of my cum in my mouth. After a few months of that, I ASKED HER if I could give her more oral pleasure AFTER we had sex. Sandy was startled. But I had prior experience with being a joyful “cum eater” for another woman in 1977. I said, “You eat my cum for me. I just want to return the favor for you”. She said that “She would have to think about it”. Two days later she came back and said, “Every time I thought about you “eating your cum” for me, my panties got really wet. I do WANT you to “eat your cum” for me!
Our sexual norm was for me to give Sandy one orgasm through oral stimulation and then have intercourse. In our first “cum eating” experience, she instantly had multiple screaming orgasms (MSO’s). When Sandy asked me to stop, I stayed down there to enjoy the scent of her pussy for a while. When I came up from under the covers, she gave me an erotic answer that I didn’t expect. “Come here and kiss me. I want to know what my pussy tastes like after we have had sex.” After kissing me and licking my face, she said, “I want you to “eat your cum” for me again in the morning after we have more sex. Her scent was even more erotic in the morning. Sandy had MSO’s again.
Sandy wasn’t dominant yet, but she was finding and expressing her new-found and superior female sexuality (multiple orgasms).
“Ann of Clifton Park” was also multi orgasmic from “cum eating” in 1977 but she attributed that to another man being involved. Both Ann and Sandy were orgasmic by simple anal licking.
I believe that women are supposed to be licked after sex, including anal licking, and men have “primal codes” in their brains to accomplish that.
Sandy loved taunting & teasing me about my need to “eat my cum”. During sex, she would say, “Cum in my pussy so you can ”eat it” for me”. That would make me ejaculate. At the fanciest restaurants she would put her hand in her very wet panties and then under my nose and say, “I want to remind you of the smell and taste of your cum in my pussy at this table. I am your dessert when we get home.” There are few words more erotic than that or, “Do you want to lick my ass hole too?” “Nature walks” in the summer were erotic delights. We would have sex and then she would walk, with me behind her, with no panties on. She was teasing me by letting me see my cum in her pussy. She would also bend over to show me her ass hole. She loved to get on her hands and knees and make me lick her ass hole from behind if someone was watching from a safe distance. I want the world to see you licking my ass hole.
I first witnessed the joys of “cum eating” through an unnamed woman’s experience on the beach at Quivet Creek in July of 1977 as described in this third message.
I received my “cum eater” training through “Ann of Clifton Park” and her assistant in late 1977 as described in the first message.
Sandy experienced the joys of “cum eating” in 1995 because I had been trained by a woman to be a “cum eater” in 1977. Her story is described in the second message.
The “cum eating’ joys reported in messages 2 (Sandy) and 3 (woman at Quivet Creek) are a very close match.
All 3 women experienced multiple screaming orgasms.
I was doing my morning walk at 7 AM as I turned into Quivet Creek. I saw a couple on a blanket, on the other side of the creek, with the man sucking or licking his woman’s breasts. The woman saw me approaching. She got up and had her man pull the bottom of her swimsuit down. Then, completely naked, she ran out into the creek and cut the distance between me and her in half. She lay down on her back on a sandbar, spread her legs, and called for her man to have sex with her. She knew I was there. Then I heard, “Just cum in my pussy so you can “eat it” for me”. When he ejaculated, she let him rest for a few moments and then aggressively pushed his head down between her legs. “Eat your cum” for breakfast! And so, he did.
She was having multiple screaming orgasms and screaming “eat your cum for me”. “OMG, I LOVE IT. Eat your cum for me.” When they were done with “cum eating”, she stood up, turned away from me, got down on her hands and knees, and commanded her man to “lick her asshole”.
The four points of that story are:
1. This is the third woman, in my very limited experience, that had multiple screaming orgasms after making her man “eat his cum” for her.
2. “Erotic” women have been making their men “eat cum” for 49 years.
3. Ann knew that the “dirtier” her words were, the more power they had over men. Sandy was getting close to her wording.
4. A “sexually CREATIVE woman’s” man will go along with HER DESIRE TO BE SEEN enjoying highly pleasurable sex acts.
Men often men need a woman to command them through their first “cum eating” experience. When I received my “cum eater” training from “Ann of Clifton Park” she said, ”Kneel before your ”goddess” and smell my pussy”. Then she asked, ”Do you know what that is?” I said, “I know what semen smells like.” Then she said, ”Good, kneel before your goddess, take my panties off, and “eat his cum” for me.”
At Quivet Creek I also saw the desire “to BE SEEN BY OTHERS” in several other women on the beaches in 1977. I believe that it is caused by EXTREME FEMALE PLEASURE. “IF IT FEELS SO GOOD and LOOKS SO WICKED,” they want to be “SEEN ENJOYING IT”.