Your Handbook to becoming a happy cuckoldress

Becoming a Happy Cuckoldress

Everything you need to know to be a happy and successful cuckoldress

As we live in the fast-paced era of sexual revolutions, little is surprising these days. A bunch of kinks has evolved and branched into specific likenesses of unusual but familiar conventions, one of them being cuckolding. Ever wondered what it means to be a cuckold? What is a cuckoldress? How to cuckold? And the practice is so omnipresent that both men and women are experimenting with the arrangement. So being a cuckoldress isn’t as uncommon as one would think. 

Previously, we covered the kink of cuckolding in-depth and how to turn your man into a willing cuck. Here’s the go-to article for all the women out there wanting to explore being a cuckoldress – and it can be more fun than you would think. After all, why should men have all the fun?

What is cuckolding for females?

Cuckolding is an age-old kink, and females owning it is a sign of the times. Women are educating and exploring the means of cuckolding, what it means to engage in it, and what is cuckoldress even – is still uncharted territory. Having a man as a cuck under a female can be daunting, but if you swing that way, it equates to you deriving pleasure by dominating your man! It’s to the understanding you and your partner have as to what extremes you want him to oscillate between; to find the right spot.

What is a cuckoldress?

The word’s associations are tied closely with the ideas of BDSM and pleasure through voyeurism. For beginners, a cuckoldress is a woman who gets aroused by dominating her husband or partner sexually. The modern-day cuckoldress is an aware woman with full knowledge of her sexuality and sexual boundaries. She enjoys participating in unconventional sexcapades with her partner’s knowledge (and consent), even at times with other men.

Breaking the ice for becoming a cuckoldress

So you’ve finally decided to be a cuckoldress to your loving partner. But how do you start the conversation? We have got you covered:

●     Start by talking dirty in bed. Dirty talking clears a lot of air about what interests people. If you’re still thinking about how to cuckold, push the ideas of teasing him, be kinky about other men, try to bring up the topic of you hooking up with strangers, and see how he reacts to it.

●     Talk about them seeing you get fucked raw. With a receptive, playful, and supportive undertone, carry a conversation of you getting raw-dogged in bed with him watching. Try to gauge his thoughts on how he would be enjoying the situation.

●     If he reciprocates, pursue the motivation to join a dating app or similar platforms. You may join as a couple but make it clear that the sole intention is to find a bull to cuck him. There are no “ifs and buts.” Make sure he doesn’t get distracted trying to find another “partner.” The only intention should be to get a bull!

A few golden tips on being a happy cuckoldress

What is a cuckoldress? A woman who grasps a man by his desires and trains him to please her as a slave. Being a happy cuckoldress can be challenging at times but with enough open communication becomes easy. 

Here I’ve given you a few golden tips on ensuring you know how to cuckold happily. Keep these pointers up your sleeves, and I’m sure the only regret you’ll have is not finding this article earlier!

● Don’t commence right away. If you’ve just come into a relationship with your partner, giving some time before breaking into talking about cuckolding is usually the rule of thumb. Understand your partner first.

●     Put your partner’s needs first. Cuckolding 101 is about the partner, their satisfaction, and comfort first. Breach the topic carefully. They shouldn’t be appalled at the idea of cuckolding, making questions arise about your loyalty and asking stuff like “What is a cuckoldress even?” “Oh, so you want me to fuck around?” Most of these conversations get tricky if you position yourself as a kink-hungry human. Avoid being selfish and take care of your partner’s needs first.

●     Embrace your kinks and be open, at least in your inner circles. A lady proud of her sexuality and kinks will become incomparable. Once you are comfortable in your skin, nothing can distract you. Try to be open about it. If you want to explore cuckolding, be vocal about it. Embracing your kink will not only help you be at peace with your partner but can also help you find new bulls.

●     Be a dom, a slut, but at your own pace. Once you find a bull, make sure you control the dynamics of your relationship. For example, convey it clearly if you want to be a submissive slut to your bull and be a dom to your partner. There shouldn’t be any confusion in such matters, especially if you both are new to cucking. 

●     Restrict your partner from any self-pleasure. Yes, you read that right. Abstain your husband or partner kinds of self-pleasure so you can experience all of it during the sessions. I’ve seen many couples fall out of a cuckold relationship because the men indulged too much in self-pleasure. As a result, they were not motivated to get cucked during the act. Therefore, my advice is to restrict your man from pleasing himself outside your cucking sessions.

●     Post-sex care is essential. Reminders of love, affection, and reassurance about the relationship are necessary after your partner sees you hook up with someone else. It gives them solace knowing that this is just a kink thing and not a rupture in your relationship. 

●     Communicate frequently and set clear boundaries. Making your partner and your bull understand the limitations of cuckolding, what a cuckoldress is, what your dynamic will be in the arrangement, where their role ends, and the fact that this is just a pure fetishistic pleasure and not read between the lines is essential. Open communication is the key to every incredible bond in life. 

After reading this brief article, I’m sure you’re aware of all the tidbits of being a cuckoldress. Remember, at the end of the day, you should have toe-curling orgasms cuckolding your partner. So what are you waiting for? Talk to your partner now and get into this kinkyverse of being a cuckoldress! Thank me in the comments after you get your results *wink wink*.