The Subs of FemdomU Magazine Present: The Sub’s Oral Playbook

A few weeks ago, we created a form to gather insights from subs participating in my Online Domination and Submissive Training program. Aristotle, pussyslave, zeek and exibishboy were all asked to test the form, including a section where they rated their skills in providing Oral Sex on a scale from 1 to 10. Impressively, they rated themselves quite high, with scores of 9, 8, 7, and 6 respectively—suggesting a group of burgeoning cunnilingus experts! I expanded this, asking another volunteer, mr.sub as well as my own two personal submissives, thing1 and thing2, to also participate.

All of them claimed some level of expertise at performing oral service to women.

This got me thinking: with such talent at our disposal, why not tap into their expertise to benefit our readers? Consequently, I assigned each of them a task to share their personal experiences and tips, aiming to help others enhance their oral service skills.

We’ve compiled their contributions, along with insights from my personal subs and previously published content by our staff subs, into this week’s feature: The Sub’s Oral Playbook. Whether you’re looking to refine your skills or just starting out, there’s something for everyone in The Sub’s Oral Playbook.

Table of Contents

• NEW! Prose and Vibes: Being Romantic and Using your Voice! – BoxingGloveLove shares a unique method of using his voice during service. Learn about this technique. Then practice it. Then use it!
• Serving Her Pleasure: A Submissive Man’s Journey Through Cunnilingus – Our Sub Managing Editor, Shawn, dusted this piece off and made some updates. It’s a 10-Step Guide that is easy for any sub to follow!
• From Clitoral to Cervical: A Sub’s Journey to Mastering Different Types of Female Orgasms – This is duckie’s work of art, a very in-depth article with so much information, including his 22 secret techniques. Read it. Study it. Practice it.
• How to Avoid Tongue Cramps and Keep Pleasuring Like a Pro – Levi’s article contains valuable information for service subs who need to pleasure their domme (or dommes) like a pro.
• Advice on Oral Sex for First-Timers: Written by my little show-off, exibishboy. He rated himself a modest 6 out of 10. I was very pleased with is first piece for the magazine. He starts out with some great advice: “Don’t rush it. Go slow so as to build anticipation. Start at the neck, kissing and licking gently.” There are some other great tips for beginners and experienced cunninglinguists alike.
• How I Improved My Oral Skills: You Can Do It Too!: Written by pussyslave, who rated himself a confident 8 out of 10. His wife confirmed that “he’s definitely gotten much better over time.” With that endorsement, I assigned pussyslave to write his article on “how I improved my oral skills.” I was very pleased with his in-depth article. The first piece of advice that jumped out at me is actually something his wife told him: “…there’s more to pussy eating than just working over the Clit the entire time.“
• How I Please Her With My Mouth – Written by aristotle, his vividly descriptive essay takes readers on a sensual journey of oral worship and devotion, emphasizing the importance of attentiveness, technique, and reverence for a Domme’s pleasure. For a sub who self-rated himself a 9/10, this should be a good read for all!
• First Time Oral: Providing Level 10 Service to a New Domme, First Time and Every Time – Zeek gives a great overview of how to make sure you’re giving top-notch oral service the first time – and always!
• Complete Submission: A Lesson in Oral Worship – Written by mr.sub, he emphasizes the importance of selflessness, attentiveness, and devotion.
• How to Use All 6 Senses When Providing Oral Pleasure – My personal sub “thing1” shares his secret to success – using all his senses when performing.
• The Power of Eye Contact: Elevating Your Oral Service – My other personal sub “thing2” shares the power of eye-contact when servicing his Domme.
• Anytime, Anywhere, Anything She Wants – Mistress Heather’s husband Cody joins the project with his perspective on life in a Female-Led Relationship, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing his Domme’s desires—no matter the circumstances.
• Everything You Need for Marathon Pussy Service and How To Build Your Toolkit: Zeek’s “Lickety-Split Kit” is a thoughtfully curated set of essentials for the devoted submissive. From hydration to mouth spray, knee pads, and discreet cleanup items, each element ensures seamless, marathon oral service anytime, anywhere. With this kit, you can always be ready to please.