Why You Should Never Rush Insertion
Anal tissue is delicate. Rushing penetration—whether it’s with a toy, a Domme’s finger, or a...
Health & Safety Section Editor
NurseDomme Jessica brings her extensive experience as a retired first aid professional to her role as the Health & Safety Section Editor for FemdomU Magazine. Known for her meticulous attention to detail and unwavering dedication to safety, Jessica ensures that all our content promotes safe, consensual practices in femdom activities.
Jessica’s unique perspective as both a healthcare professional and a lifestyle participant allows her to bridge the gap between kink and care. Living with her supportive husband in the Northeast, she enjoys a balanced life filled with travel, exploration, and femdom adventures. She frequently collaborates with Madam Nora Sinclair, lending her expertise to BDSM parties and events as an aftercare specialist. At these gatherings, Jessica not only provides first aid but also relishes the playful attention she receives from submissive males, making her a celebrated figure within the community.
Beyond her professional contributions, Jessica is an avid traveler who delights in exploring new cultures and meeting people from all walks of life. Whether she’s participating in Madam Nora’s legendary femdom extravaganzas or sharing her experiences through the pages of FemdomU, Jessica remains committed to fostering a safe, informed, and inclusive environment for all.
Through her writings, Jessica offers invaluable insights into the intersection of healthcare and kink, empowering readers to embrace their desires with confidence and care.
Anal tissue is delicate. Rushing penetration—whether it’s with a toy, a Domme’s finger, or a...
Rimming can be intimate, erotic, and deeply submissive—but it carries real risks. The anus...
Yes, your butt deserves daily attention. Clean it gently in the shower, moisturize the skin...
Not all anal toys are created equal. Choose toys made from non-porous, body-safe materials like...
Enemas are a common prep tool for anal play, but they’re not for daily use or casual fun. Only...
If you’re new to anal play, patience is everything. Your body needs time to adjust, both...
Not all pain is good pain. In this no-nonsense guide, NurseDomme Jessica walks you through the most common injuries seen in BDSM—from eye scratches to anal tears—and how to prevent or treat them. Whether you’re the one swinging the paddle or bent over for it, this is required reading for anyone who plays hard.
NurseDomme Jessica strips away the shame and brings hard truths with a soft touch in this Men’s Health Month guide to penis care. From hygiene and grooming to erections, diet, STDs, and prostate health, this no-nonsense article reminds submissives that caring for their cock is caring for their Mistress’s property.
As submissive men age, their bodies change—but their value in service only deepens. Nurse Domme Jessica explores how Dommes can rule with more precision, erotic creativity, and psychological control by embracing the realities of aging erections and orgasms. It’s not about less power. It’s about more intentional power.
At Madam Nora's estate, a submissive’s body is not his own—it is a tool of service. This detailed article walks through the complete physical exam every new sub undergoes, from stripdown and scent checks to treadmill testing, genital inspection, blood draws, and orgasm evaluation. No guesswork. Just data, obedience, and clinical precision.
Safewords are essential in BDSM, but a three-tier system like green, yellow, red offers nuance and empowerment. This structure gives submissives clear ways to communicate, while Dommes show leadership through care and consent. Learn how to use the stoplight system to deepen trust, enhance safety, and strengthen your dynamic.
Join our mailing list for instant access to our Weekly and Special Editions.