
Eight Inches of Obedience: My Harness. My Crown. My Rules.

Let’s get one thing straight, darling: when I decide to bend a man over and fill him with something that used to be in my nightstand drawer, I’m not asking. I’m claiming. Pegging isn’t just a kink. It’s a statement. A strut. A strap-on salute to power, control, and exactly who’s in charge here. (Hint: it’s not the one with his face buried in the pillow.)
Flip the Script, Babe
Penetration has always been branded as something men do. But when I buckle up and tell my houseboy to present his ass like a good pup, the script flips fast. I become the one doing, taking, driving. He becomes the one blushing, moaning, gasping, learning. It’s not just a physical act—it’s a philosophical overhaul.
He thought he was a man until I rearranged his priorities with eight inches of silicone and a slow, smug thrust.
The Throne is a Harness
Let’s talk gear. My harness is my crown. My dildo is my scepter. And when I step behind a boy with lube in one hand and intention in the other, the room goes still. Because he knows what’s coming, and it’s not mercy.
Pegging, when done right, is a whole ceremony. There’s the warm-up—fingers, teasing, a firm “relax, sweetheart.” There’s the entry, which often involves delightful little squeals. And then there’s the ride. And make no mistake—I’m the one riding.
Surrender Has a Backdoor
Do you know what’s so beautiful about pegging? It’s not just the humiliation, though I do adore that part. It’s the opening. I don’t just mean anatomically. I mean emotionally, spiritually, existentially.
Men like to talk a big game about power. About dominance. But once they’ve been spread open, made to beg, and fucked senseless by a woman wearing thigh-highs and a wicked grin, something shifts. They see the truth. And that truth is me.
It’s Not Just for Punishment (But It’s Great for That Too)
Now don’t get me wrong—sometimes I peg because he’s been a very bad boy. And sometimes I peg because I’m feeling generous. Sometimes I whisper sweet things in his ear while I press into him slowly. Other times I smack his ass and ask if he feels owned yet.
There’s no wrong way to peg a man. But let’s be clear—there’s my way. And it usually ends with him twitching, ruined, and thanking me like a ruined altar boy with no god but me.
The Afterglow
When it’s all done, and I’m taking off my harness with a lazy stretch, he usually curls up at my feet, brain foggy, hole gaping, pride recalibrated. That’s the glow I live for. Not his. Mine. The look of a woman who just conquered a man through his ass and didn’t even break a sweat.
So if you’re wondering whether pegging is worth adding to your Femdom repertoire, let me make it simple: yes. Strap up, strut in, and take him. Because nothing says “I own you” quite like using his backdoor as your front entrance.
And once you’ve done it, you’ll never want to take it off. Trust me—I keep mine hanging by the bed like a favorite whip. After all, power isn’t just something you wear. Sometimes, it’s something you insert.
My god Mizz Geena, you certainly know how to get a guy all hot and bothered. I mean I love how your mind work, how it paints a picture clear enough to translate into image.
You have certainly left me wanting more, or to play the part should I say. All I can say is I’m glad I read this after I did today’s task, between reading this and some other posts on here I could have well been having some bad boy marks coming my way.
I live for the day that there might not be an ocean between us, what would I have as an excuse then I wonder.
Thank you for sharing
I have to agree with eleven’s comment. I WANT to be pegged by a Domme. I realize it’s a ritual to put a sub in his place, a Domme asserting her ownership and a form of punishment. But hopefully it’s me being a plaything for entertainment fir my Domme also. Also for me I want to experience all facets of being owned by a Domme.
Reading this had me smiling ear to ear, Mizz Geena. You paint a marvelous picture, and am excited to have discovered this marvelous publication.
I agree wholeheartedly with my fellow subs.
For all my life, seeing dominant women as the queens, empresses, and goddesses that they truly are has helped me along the path of honest, disciplined service. Now, nothing makes me happier than being useful to a lady.
I love it when being useful means accepting the scepter, Mizz. Always a treat. Thanks again you so much for sharing, I loved reading.