Exploring Gags: From Classic Ball to Advanced Spider – Which is Right for Your Sub?

As a seasoned dominatrix, I have found that one of the most satisfying ways to keep my submissive men in check is by using gags. Not only do they serve as a physical restraint, but they also add a certain level of humiliation and submission to the experience. But with so many types of gags out there, it can be hard to determine which one is the best for keeping your submissive’s mouth shut. Fear not, for I am here to guide you through the world of gags and help you choose the perfect one to keep your sub from using his words.

The Classic Ball Gag

First up, we have the classic ball gag. This is a go-to for many dominatrixes, and for good reason. It consists of a ball, usually made of rubber or silicone, attached to a strap that is fastened behind the sub’s head. The size of the ball can vary, depending on how much you want to muffle his cries. The ball gag is perfect for those who enjoy seeing their sub drool helplessly and struggle to form coherent words. It also prevents him from biting or talking back, which is always a plus. Plus, the sight of a submissive man with a ball gag in his mouth is simply delicious. It’s like a cherry on top of a cake, adding that extra bit of kinkiness to your playtime.

The Inflatable Gag

Next, we have the inflatable gag. Now, this one may seem a bit intimidating at first, but trust me, it’s worth it. This gag is similar to the ball gag, but the ball is made of rubber and can be inflated to various sizes. What’s great about this gag is that you have complete control over how much your sub can handle. You can start off small and gradually inflate it, making his mouth feel fuller and fuller. You can tease him as you inflate it, about how you’re training his mouth to take something really big! It’s a great way to test his limits and see just how much he can take. Plus, the sound of the air being squeezed out of the gag as your sub struggles is music to any domme’s ears.

The Harness Gag

For those who want to take it up a notch, we have the harness gag. This is not for the faint of heart, my friends. The harness gag consists of a leather or rubber harness that goes around the sub’s head, with a gag attached to the front. This type of gag completely covers his mouth, leaving no room for escape. It’s perfect for those who want to completely silence their sub and make him feel utterly helpless. It also adds a level of discomfort as the leather straps dig into his skin, a reminder of his submission. And let’s not forget the added bonus of being able to attach a leash to the gag, controlling your sub’s movements and literally leading him around like the obedient pet they are.

The Dildo Gag

Now, this is a gag that takes things to a whole new level. The dildo gag is a ball gag with an attached dildo on the front. This gag serves two purposes: one, it keeps his mouth full and quiet, and two, it provides him with a tool to please his Mistress. Just imagine having your sub on his knees, gagged with a protruding dildo you’re using as you ride his face. It’s a win-win situation.

But be warned, this gag is not for the faint of heart. It requires some practice and patience to get it right, and it’s not suitable for all subs. So make sure you discuss it with your partner beforehand and establish a safe word, just in case things get too intense.

The Spider Gag

Moving on to the more advanced gags, we have the spider gag. This one may look terrifying, but oh boy, is it effective. The spider gag consists of a metal ring with four prongs attached to a strap. The prongs go into the sub’s mouth, holding it open in a spider-like fashion. This not only prevents him from speaking, but it also leaves his tongue and mouth exposed for all sorts of delicious tortures. The possibilities are endless with this gag, making it a must-have for any serious Femdom.

The Tape Gag

Last but certainly not least, we have the good ol’ fashioned tape gag. Now, I know what you’re thinking, “tape? That’s not very kinky.” But let me tell you, this is a gag that should not be underestimated. While it may not look as impressive as the others, it is incredibly effective. The best option is bondage tape, found on many BDSM supply websites or stores. This stuff sticks to itself but not skin or hair, making it ideal for quickly gagging him or tying him down. You can wrap it around their head multiple times to ensure they can’t wiggle out of it. And the best part? It leaves no marks, so your sub can go back to their daily life without anyone suspecting a thing. It’s perfect for those who want to keep their playtime a secret or for those who enjoy a bit of spontaneity in their domination.

The Underwear Gag

Now, this gag is a bit more unorthodox, but it can be equally effective. The concept is simple, use either your own or your sub’s underwear as a gag. You can choose to use clean underwear or dirty ones, depending on how mean you’re feeling. This gag is perfect for those impromptu Femdom sessions when you don’t have your toys with you. Plus, there’s something incredibly humiliating about being gagged with your own underwear, or your Domme’s soaked panties!

One tip for using the underwear gag is to stuff it in his mouth and use the bondage tape or other cloth to tie around his head and hold the undies in place.

So, which Gag is the BEST for Femdom?

Gags are a wonderful addition to any domination play. Whether you want to muffle his cries, control his movements, expose him to new sensations, or just shut him the fuck up, there’s a gag out there for every occasion. So don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun with it.

The best gag to use? The one that’s in his mouth, keeping him quiet!