We hosted a formal dinner last weekend and it was one of my favorite kinds of gatherings. Kink friends attended, though not strictly a femdom crowd. You could say a wide array of interests and dynamics were represented, which made the energy in the room lively and...

Had my buddy “K” over last night. Annie had already turned in early, so it was just the two of us hanging out in the living room. We met about a year ago when he reached out to me online. Turns out he’s local here in Portland and part of the kink community. That’s...

I am just going to say it plainly. Part of being a strong, sexually dominant woman is being comfortable enough to admit what you enjoy. Confidence is not only about control. It is also about honesty with yourself. I enjoy a controlled threesome. I like the...

There’s a big reason I keep my magazine work somewhat anonymous from my daily life. Not because I’m ashamed. Not because I’m hiding. But because once people know, everything changes. Last weekend I was at a party. Normal crowd. Drinks. Music. Laughing. And somehow,...

My girlfriend dragged me to get fitted for a tux for her cousin's wedding in March. Since I wasn't part of the wedding party, I thought I'd have some freedom in choosing my style, but she insisted on coming along "to make sure you don't pick something ridiculous."...

One of my very good friends discovered that her husband was going to be on business in Chicago at the same time I'd be traveling nearby. She arranged for us to meet - she said he could use some of my special discipline. I knew what she meant - I'd fucked him, sat...