The FemdomU WHIP
mrs. o is coming to visit!
Madam has a dear friend, Mrs. O, and their friendship predates duckie by a long, long time. seriously, sometimes the two of them get going with inside jokes and stories from years ago and i'm just sitting there smiling like i understand what the hell they're...
My Boys and Their Secret Safewords
How FemdomU Changed My Understanding of Femdom
Before I found FemdomU, I thought Femdom was mostly about the surface stuff. Leather, high heels, a woman looking down at a man while he called her Mistress. I pictured scenes that were intense and visual facesitting, teasing, a bit of humiliation, maybe some light...
In the Corner, Sucking my Thumb
So there I was, kneeling in the corner of our bedroom watching my fiancée with Rick, a new guy she'd met and gone on a date with. Things had progressed very nicely between them, apparently, because now he'd graduated from "guy she's dating" to "guy I'm watching her...
Replace Worn-Out Gear
Restraints and impact equipment don't last forever. Leather can crack, stitching can weaken, rope can fray, and buckles or clips can fail after repeated use. A quick inspection before each scene can prevent an unexpected equipment failure that could lead to injury....
“Discuss what receiving a command means to you and the difference between merely completing an assignment and making a genuine effort to fulfill what a Domme requested.”
Receiving a command from a Domme is to be taken totally seriously. I reflect that it is from my Owner and I have no choice but to obey cheerfully and at once! It should not be done in an haphazard manner but in a well thought out and complete way! A submissive...
Coffee with Friends
One thing I've learned about being married to Annie is that you never really know where an ordinary evening is going to end up. The plan sounded completely normal. She was having a few friends over for coffee, dessert, and conversation. I ran out to one of our...
The Perils of Unauthorized Landscaping
Can we talk about pubic grooming for a moment? In a Female-Led Relationship, grooming is a quiet, daily way Mistresses reinforce power. A submissive man's appearance is always managed, serving as a direct reflection of his obedience. That’s the theory, anyway. In...
her shoes
one of my favorite responsibilities around the estate is taking care of Madam's shoes. seriously. i know that probably sounds weird to a lot of people, but if you're a service sub, you understand. every pair tells a story. every pair has a purpose. and every pair...
Five Reasons I Read FemdomU Every Week
When Mistress Heather assigned me to write about why i read FemdomU Magazine, I realized it wasn’t difficult to find reasons. Every issue offers something valuable, whether it’s education, personal growth, inspiration, or simply a reminder that we are all learning...
















duckie, this gave me a smile. I do, however, think a short instructional video would have been useful. Perhaps we…
I have a few questions- 1. Does the submissive have the right to stop the event any point of time?…
The little “Good Elf” notes are a sweet idea—personal praise feels way more meaningful than generic holiday gifts. I’d tuck…
Ty Eleven !! I can be quite the little collector!
You are just very persuasive, Mizz Geena!!