The FemdomU WHIP
Welcome ouchie
Please join me in welcoming our newest volunteer sub, ouchie! Based on what I've learned so far, this boy seems to have a healthy appreciation for pain and a genuine masochistic streak. Fortunately for him, we have no shortage of Dommes capable of accommodating...
5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive man
I understand my role in a consensual power dynamic as something that requires structure, accountability, and consistent self-control. Discipline is not optional—it is the foundation of trust. I also accept that I function best under clear expectations, firm...
The Dead Sub
I wrote this many years ago, recounting the experience I had with a specific submissive client. It was fun - combining theatrical with femdom - and the client had agreed to allow me to share his story (without personal details). That old blog is long gone, so I’m...
What Catches the Eye
Last fall – the weekend after Mollie hosted Christopher at her place for us – Katie invited krissy and me to join her and kevin for a day at her bull, Jerry’s, place. Out in the country, a county away. About 90 mins drive. Said there’s access to the lake over a...
the punishment wheel strikes again
ok, so i talked about why i ended up with three spins on my punishment wheel. it has been a while since i've had to deal with this thing, which is usually a good sign. Madam tends to reserve wheel punishments for times when duckie genuinely needs correcting. and...
Public Memo to All FemdomU Magazine and Academy Dommes and Subs
Hello All! I am pleased to announce the appointment of volunteer sub eleven to the position of headboy of FemdomU. As one of our original models, a longtime member of our volunteer team, and after more than a year of consistent, reliable, and steady service, eleven...
Learn How to Fall Safely
If a scene involves movement, restraint, or physical control, knowing how to fall safely is essential. Whether you are being guided, pulled, or you simply lose your balance while bound, your instinct should be to protect your head and neck first. Tuck your chin...
New Outdoor Space
One of the things I love most about our new home is the land. For years, I've lived with neighbors close enough that you always had to be aware of who might be looking out a window, walking a dog, or driving past at the wrong moment. Not anymore. This property...
Getting the New House Ready
We’ve officially started work on the new house, and right now it looks more like a construction project than a future home. Which honestly is a little exciting. thing1, thing2, and scrappy have been staying out there for 2-3 days at a time while they work on the...
Ben got Snipped
Last week, Ben made a significant personal decision. He chose to get a vasectomy. Because he is still young enough that having a family might have been part of his future plans, I wanted to make absolutely certain the decision was his. We talked about it...









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What is with the guy who don´t like to be cuckoldet at all but loves to be walked all over…
Miss Autumn, Thank You for the gag article. I love the way you take something so basic as keeping a…
Welcome Nav! Happy to have you here with us :-)
No problem, I feel like I won't be the newest much longer either