The FemdomU WHIP
Manscaped by the barber
So I've been seeing this barber for a while now. He works out of his apartment, which sounds sketchier than it is. I met him through a friend, he does great work, his rates are ridiculously reasonable, and best of all, he has late-night availability that fits my...
Welcome ouchie
Please join me in welcoming our newest volunteer sub, ouchie! Based on what I've learned so far, this boy seems to have a healthy appreciation for pain and a genuine masochistic streak. Fortunately for him, we have no shortage of Dommes capable of accommodating...
5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive man
I understand my role in a consensual power dynamic as something that requires structure, accountability, and consistent self-control. Discipline is not optional—it is the foundation of trust. I also accept that I function best under clear expectations, firm...
The Dead Sub
I wrote this many years ago, recounting the experience I had with a specific submissive client. It was fun - combining theatrical with femdom - and the client had agreed to allow me to share his story (without personal details). That old blog is long gone, so I’m...
What Catches the Eye
Last fall – the weekend after Mollie hosted Christopher at her place for us – Katie invited krissy and me to join her and kevin for a day at her bull, Jerry’s, place. Out in the country, a county away. About 90 mins drive. Said there’s access to the lake over a...
the punishment wheel strikes again
ok, so i talked about why i ended up with three spins on my punishment wheel. it has been a while since i've had to deal with this thing, which is usually a good sign. Madam tends to reserve wheel punishments for times when duckie genuinely needs correcting. and...
Public Memo to All FemdomU Magazine and Academy Dommes and Subs
Hello All! I am pleased to announce the appointment of volunteer sub eleven to the position of headboy of FemdomU. As one of our original models, a longtime member of our volunteer team, and after more than a year of consistent, reliable, and steady service, eleven...
Learn How to Fall Safely
If a scene involves movement, restraint, or physical control, knowing how to fall safely is essential. Whether you are being guided, pulled, or you simply lose your balance while bound, your instinct should be to protect your head and neck first. Tuck your chin...
New Outdoor Space
One of the things I love most about our new home is the land. For years, I've lived with neighbors close enough that you always had to be aware of who might be looking out a window, walking a dog, or driving past at the wrong moment. Not anymore. This property...
Getting the New House Ready
We’ve officially started work on the new house, and right now it looks more like a construction project than a future home. Which honestly is a little exciting. thing1, thing2, and scrappy have been staying out there for 2-3 days at a time while they work on the...













Great article Duckie! Thank you for the how to instructions as well. I hope they don’t come in handy.
duckie, this gave me a smile. I do, however, think a short instructional video would have been useful. Perhaps we…
I have a few questions- 1. Does the submissive have the right to stop the event any point of time?…
The little “Good Elf” notes are a sweet idea—personal praise feels way more meaningful than generic holiday gifts. I’d tuck…
Ty Eleven !! I can be quite the little collector!