The FemdomU WHIP
May
2026
4
Masturbation May
Not only is today Star Wars Day, it’s the start of Masturbation May. And yes, I am going to have fun with this. My boys here at home already know what kind of month this is going to be. They are used to stroking on command, but this month I’m not giving them...
May
2026
4
Conclave V Opens to All
Today we open the contents of Conclave V to everyone. Until now, only the twelve voting members of the Conclave have had access to the resolutions as we debated and discussed each one in detail. That changes today. Transparency matters, and I want our readers to...
May
2026
4
May the Fourth be With You!
For those of you who are geeky Star Wars fans like myself, make sure to read my Geena Loves Mike story:https://femdomu.com/may-the-fourth-be-with-you/...
May
2026
3
What Does a Session Look Like With Me
I have had this question asked by most of the potential submissives so many times, what does go on in my sessions? My response is well, set the appointment and find out. I do the fact finding part/screening first. I ask them how old they are, what line of work they...
May
2026
3
Monitor for Sub Frenzy
Sub frenzy is that intense rush where you want to say yes to everything, serve everyone, and push yourself further than you normally would. It can feel exciting and empowering, but it often leads to poor decisions, ignored limits, and eventual burnout. You might...
May
2026
2
Saving Money the Smart Way
We’ve been tightening things up financially around my house, and bringing Ben into the household is starting to pay off in ways I fully expected. When you have a properly trained service sub, you start looking at everyday expenses very differently. I’ve been...
May
2026
1
BDSM Play Parties are NOT Sex Parties
Happy Friday. With being in the BDSM Community for many years, there is some confusion with the BDSM Play parties vs Straight/Gay Sex Parties. I have been part of KT Events for the last 12 years in Houston,TX. We have strict rules people who attend are required to...
Apr
2026
30
Toxic /Nasty Men on Snapchat
I have recently gotten back on Snapchat, which I am asking myself why. I use Snapchat to promote events I am part of, promote this site and blog, also my advice column. I have been getting texts, calls from these dusty ass random men, asking if I am single (which I...
Apr
2026
29
Put This On and Be Ready
I am almost always the first one up in our house. Usually by a couple hours. It’s just how I’m wired. Coffee, quiet, maybe some time to myself before the day starts. Last weekend, though, Annie surprised me. My alarm went off and she was already awake. That...
Apr
2026
29
Screening and Dealing With Time Wasters
I have been a Professional Dominatrix over 17 years. I do have quite a few time wasters, guys who just want to waste my time. Over the years I have learned pretty early in the screening process if they are serious or not. When I screen, I ask how old they are, if...
Hi otta. Thanks, for you kind words. I am thrilled and excited to become one of the boys and am…
Welcome Chanel, i assure you that you will enjoy your stay here, it's home for all of us in here
Thank You Mizz Geena, Your words really touched me, me who has to thank You for giving me this chance…
Hello Miss Autumn. Yes, Mizz Geena is a brilliant taskmistress. She has taught me so much. As for my position,…
That is a very touching narrative. Obviously, Madam cares very deeply for you and I hope you find ways to…