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Don’t Forget Your Neck
Collars, leashes, and neck restraints can feel powerful and symbolic, but they come with serious risks if handled improperly. The neck contains major blood vessels, nerves, and the airway, all of which are vulnerable to pressure. Never allow anything to be tight...
Going to be Sharing my Ben
I keep my lifestyle very private from my vanilla world. I have kids, and my choices will never interfere with their lives. Because of that, Ben exists publicly as our manny. Helpful, reliable, and quietly part of the household. That said, I do have a small circle...
a lighter load, still a good sting
my punishment ceremony yesterday definitely stung… in that way that makes duckie go, “oh no… anyway…” since Madam is away, things had to be handled a little differently. the monthly ceremony still happens, and i still get to be the human calculator for everyone’s...
Monogomy for you. Authority for me.
I’ve been off the apps for about a week now, and it’s given me time back. I’ve been using it to reassess the rules I live by. Not the ones I’ve inherited or absorbed, the ones I choose. It made me look more closely at the relationship structure I keep coming back...
Using Sex Toys
Over the 5 or 6 years I've experimented with sex toys. Tthis started when on a whim while showering I stuck a toothbrush into my anus. Not the brush part the the handle! I rubbed my prostate with for a few minutes and got hard as a rock then cum started dribbling...
Eleven’s Challenge Series
So this is actually the second challenge in this series - I will loop back and write up on the first at some point but for now this is part 2. So what is this all about? Well, I have been fortunate that as part of my 1 year anniversary as a volunteer for the...
Sub Report – February and March Review
I combined February and March into a single review period and conducted formal evaluations with our three staff subs yesterday. As I mentioned previously, all three are now under orders for corrective measures. Let’s begin with our lead sub, Zeek. He has done a...
New Artwork – Early Access for Patreon
I have a new piece of artwork to share, and I am absolutely in love with it. Another fantastic creation from our artist MK, this one features my favorite duo, Geena and Mike, in a scene that perfectly captures one of Mike’s most delicious weaknesses. In this image,...
a surprise visit in portland
a couple weeks ago, Madam had business in the states, and we ended up in a hotel in Portland, Oregon. yeah, home of our Associate Command Domme Mrs. Annie and zeek, our lead sub. i was excited just knowing we were in the same city, but this trip was strictly for...
Early Mornings and April Corrections
I am not a fan of early morning meetings, but that was exactly what was on my agenda today. A 7:30am conference call for our staff meeting. We had a full list of important issues to cover, so I made sure the boys had strong coffee ready. I was already on my second...















Levi, I really enjoyed this article about Clara Lemlich. What stood out to me most was that she did not…
Mistress Heather, I liked this article. What stood out to me was how structure can slowly slip when things become…
Mistress, I really liked this. The part about homework actually helping a slave become better at serving. I think it…
Mistress, I really liked this. The part about homework actually helping a slave become better at serving You stood out…
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