The FemdomU WHIP
May
2026
13
He Only Got One Pause
For those of you who read my stuff regularly, it probably won’t surprise you that I enjoy CNC scenes when they’re negotiated properly. There’s something incredibly fun about a man agreeing ahead of time to surrender control, only to discover he underestimated what...
May
2026
13
I Am Returning to Domcon Los Angeles May 28-31 Hilton LAX Airport Hotel and Sessions at Sanctuary LAX
Hello. it's Mistress Jennifer. I am heading back to Domcon LA, after not attending since 2021. I have missed my Domcon and Sanctuary LAX family. It will be good to be back in Los Angeles. I will be working the Sanctuary LAX booth and offering paid in person...
May
2026
13
Welcome new volunteer mana35
As we continue growing our stable of boys from around the world, I’m very pleased to officially welcome mana35 and accept his pledge of submission to FemdomU. mana is joining us as one of our nude male submissive models, and he is already hard at work on his first...
May
2026
13
5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive Man
As I begin this journey, I understand that being a submissive man is not just about words. It is about respect, discipline, humility, and proving myself through actions. I know I still have much to learn, and I am ready to improve step by step. 1. I will listen...
May
2026
13
Profiles in Kink: Dorothy Zbornack
To honor the birth anniversary of legendary actress Bea Arthur, I thought it would be fun to take a closer, kink-friendly look at her most known and beloved tv character, Dorothy Zbornack of the Golden Girls. Now hear me out. I know the character of Dorothy was...
May
2026
12
the 99-year-old who won duckie
we’ve talked before about how FemdomU really began back when Madam organized kink charity auctions. those events were wild in the best possible way. lots of laughter, lots of generosity, lots of horny rich people throwing money around “for a good cause.” and yes,...
May
2026
12
Conclave V Breakdown – Resolution 5.6 and the Writ of Reclamation
Resolution 5.6 was easily the most serious and controversial measure of Conclave V. It also introduced something entirely new into the culture and structure of FemdomU, the concept of a Writ of Reclamation. This resolution specifically addressed volunteer sub...
May
2026
11
Beyond the Lock: What Chastity Practice Can Teach You
If your chastity practice mostly revolves around cage models, day counts, and whether you've "earned" an orgasm, you're not doing anything wrong, but…you may be leaving the most profound parts of this dynamic completely and ironically untouched. Chastity, at its...
May
2026
11
Levi’s Guide to Underwear When You’re Locked
So yeah, I spend a lot of time in chastity. Which means I’ve also spent a lot of time figuring out what the hell to wear under my jeans while my cock is trapped in a tiny metal prison. Not all underwear is created equal. Some of it will make your day smooth. Some...
May
2026
11
Conclave V Breakdown – Resolution 5.5 and the Promotion of eleven
Resolution 5.5 focused on something very important to me personally, recognizing service that has been consistent, meaningful, and earned over time. With this resolution, the Conclave voted to promote our volunteer sub eleven. Now, promotions within FemdomU are not...
Hi eleven. Appreciate the comments. I have had a number of cages over the years, but this is the first…
Hi eleven. Sounds like we have similar experiences with the metal vs. other types of cages. c.
Great article Duckie! Thank you for the how to instructions as well. I hope they don’t come in handy.
duckie, this gave me a smile. I do, however, think a short instructional video would have been useful. Perhaps we…
I have a few questions- 1. Does the submissive have the right to stop the event any point of time?…