Why You Should Turn Your Boyfriend Into a Femdom Cum Eating Slut

7 Reasons To Make Him a Slave to Femdom Cum Eating

Plus 5 Ways to Make Him Take his First Taste of Semen

Making your submissive boyfriend (or fiance, husband, houseboy, etc.) eat his own cum is essential to dominating your man. First, I discuss why and when you should be feeding him cum. 

Not sure how to start? Don’t worry; I have you covered with # ways to make him take his first taste – it’s easier than you might think!

I make every man eat his cum

I can safely say that any male with whom I have had a dominant relationship has been made to eat his own cum. I do this for various reasons, but mostly because I can. It helps create the power dynamic necessary to fully control and subjugate him. I don’t do this every time, but something I leave in my “toolbox” to bring out when the time is right.

How you use these guidelines will depend on the type of femdom relationship you have with your submissive. If you roleplay occasionally, it can be a terrific way to surprise him with something new and taboo. On the other hand, if your man is fully submissive to you, it can be a great way to control, humiliate, punish and even reward him. 

Why is it Taboo for Straight Men To Eat Their Cum?

Chances are, most guys will not admit to tasting their cum. In our culture, it is a taboo topic. There are two main reasons this is such a hard thing for guys to admit to doing.

1. When males learn to masturbate, they often feel guilty about their actions. Many young boys jerk off and then quickly clean up the evidence. They have conditioned themselves to believe that their semen is nasty, filthy, and must be cleaned immediately. Too bad – think of all that tasty cum going to waste!

2. There’s a misconception that eating cum will make him gay. There’s nothing further from the truth. There are many benefits for straight men eating their cum that have nothing to do with homosexual activities. Not to mention, how many women have tasted themselves on a man’s cock after fucking him? 

Here are my 7 reasons why Femdom Cum Eating is an integral part of FLR and Femdom relationships

Reason 1 – He’s already done it.

The truth is, most guys have probably already tasted their own cum at some point. At the time of publishing this article, a non-scientific poll on the website GirlsAskGuys had a response of over 1800 males, with 56% admitting that they had tasted their cum. Make sure to enter your vote to see the updated total.

Reason 2 – He Wants it

Chances are your man secretly craves being turned into a cum eating slut. Once you discover his genuine desire, you can use it as a punishment or a reward.

Reviewing tags on popular porn-site Xvideos shows Femdom Cum Eating is one of the top searches within the femdom niche, sitting at over 175,000. A quick review of videos on our sister-site FemdomWish with the Cum Eating tag also brings up many popular videos.

Reason 3 – A new way to subjugate him.

If your man doesn’t like eating his cum, you have a new way to punish and humiliate him. Giving him an order to clean up after himself, using his tongue, can have a severely degrading effect on some men. For these guys, make sure to use this punishment sparingly!

I’ve discovered that even the men who don’t seem repulsed by tasting their semen respect the power dynamics inherited by following my order. 

Reason 4 – Preparing him for cuckolding

If you’re interested in a cuckolding scene or relationship, making his first taste his own semen is a necessary first step. Get him used to the taste. Make him accustomed to being ordered to eat cum. It is hard for a male’s sexual drive to be strong after he is finished ejaculating. He’s often programmed to be done once he shoots his load and often loses any “kinky” tendencies. It takes a solid, strong domme to enforce cum eating instructions.

Reason 5 – His Self Improvement

Being dominant over a submissive male comes with responsibilities, one of which is ensuring his self-improvement. Therefore, it is up to us to shape him into the proper submissive we want him to be.

First, when he’s regularly eating his own cum, he’s more likely to do things to improve the scent taste. We know that diet directly impacts the smell and flavor of his semen. So when he’s aware of what his semen tastes like, he’ll be more likely to improve his diet, such as adding fruit, cinnamon, peppermint, or parsley.

Next, suppose you’re correctly using cum-eating to punish or reward your submissive. In that case, you can use it for behavior modification. Help your man become a better submissive through proper training.

Reason 6 – There are Health Benefits

This one might belong as a sub-heading under Reason 5, as there are potential health benefits to him eating his cum. 

“Seminal plasma (the fluid that provides nutrients and protection for sperm, consisting of a complex range of organic and inorganic constituents) may have many health benefits… swallowing semen is actually healthy for you.”         
–Kimberly Resnick Anderson, a certified sex therapist. 

Among those possible health benefits of eating semen are elevated moods, reduction in anxiety, and better sleep. There’s even some evidence that it can help boost energy and memory.

Reason 7 – It is all about Your Pleasure

The final reason I’ll give you for turning your man into a cum-eating bitchboy is all about you – It’s just damn fun and powerful!

One of my favorite things is to have him fuck me and not give him permission to cum as he’s begging. Eventually, he can’t help but shoot his unallowed load into me. I then admonish him as I sit on his face and make him clean me up. I usually don’t get off until he’s also made me orgasm.

Here are 5 ideas to make him take his first taste of cum

Now that you are convinced it is necessary to make him eat his cum, at least occasionally, let’s talk about how you will do it. Many dommes will find it easy – they already have their submissive trained to obey their every command. However, if you’re on the other end of the spectrum, maybe still figuring out what your femdom relationship rules are, you might want to consider one or more of the following ideas:

#1 Start slow with his pre-cum. 

One of the most successful times to get him to do whatever you want is before he has cum. First, make him crazy by edging him; eventually, he’ll do anything you say. Next, use your fingers to wipe some of his pre-cum from the tip of his dick. Then, without hesitation, insert those fingers into his mouth. 

This is an easy entry method into teaching him how to eat cum. Many people prefer the taste to the actual final load. Encourage and give him positive feedback for licking his fluids off your fingers. Repeat this a couple of times before letting him finally shoot his load.

#2 The Creampie Kis

This might work for those newer to femdom or perhaps only practice femdom during roleplay. First, you give him a blowjob and then capture the cum in your mouth. Then, without hesitation, move up and kiss him, transferring his semen to his mouth.

He may balk at this, and you may want to be a bit more aggressive, holding his face in place and forcing your tongue in his mouth. Ensure he gets his entire load and, preferably, swallows.

#3 Have him masturbate on you

Many scenarios work here. Forcing him to masturbate, or having him fuck you and pull out, or even titty fucking him. Feel free to be creative. The key is to have him shoot his load on some part of your body. Then, order him to clean it up with his tongue. 

Consider playing into his desires. For example, if he’s an ass man, have him shoot his load all over your cheeks. Or if he’s into breasts, it is sexy to have him lick himself off your tits. 

#4 Tie him down

This one might be a bit more drastic, but it certainly works in the correct situation. It involves bondage, so you’ll need something to tie him down, ensuring his hands and feet are immobilized. The key is to make sure you have access to his dick. It’s also best to blindfold him.

During your session, do whatever you want with him. Bring out all the whips, paddles, and floggers you want, and go at it! Once I get them tied down, I have difficulty ending my playtime. But all good things must end, and you must remember your ultimate goal – to make him eat his cum!

Once you’re ready, make him ejaculate however you want. Just be prepared to catch it. Gather up as much semen in your hand as possible. Then, bring your hand to his mouth and shove your fingers in. He may fight back, so be prepared to be forceful. You could consider slapping his face with your other hand, ensuring he knows his place. Don’t back down – tell him all he needs to do is lick his cum from your hand and swallow.

You could also continue stroking his over-sensitive dick until he obeys. Post orgasm torture can be an excellent tool to make him agree to about anything!

#5 Fuck and Facesit

My all-time favorite. Pretty self-explanatory – let him fuck you and cum inside, then sit on his face and have him clean you out. I usually make them work until they’ve cleaned everything and made me orgasm.

This method is excellent for those reluctant boyfriends who say they want to be your submissive but then balk at things like eating cum when ordered.

Of course, very few of my submissives get to stick their dick in me. A likely scenario is to fuck a “bull” and let him cum in me, then I ride my submissive’s face. This is, of course, a common scenario in cuckolding relationships for more advanced dommes to attempt.

 Adjust based on his reaction

Once you’ve made him eat his semen, watch his response. If it is something he seems to not enjoy, you’ve discovered a powerful tool in your discipline routine. Make sure to use it sparingly. Or not! If you’re into severely disciplining your submissive, try making him masturbate and eat his cum in front of you daily for an entire month!

If he seems to accept it without complaining, you are well on your way to training him to be a perfect submissive. Femdom cum eating is something you don’t have to use all the time, but make sure to work it into your rotation, constantly reminding him he is yours to do what you want.

If you suspect he enjoys eating cum, you have something compelling to hold over him. If you’re into humiliating him, this gives you great material to work with. You may consider advancing your relationship and turning him into a cuckold slut.

Bonus Cum Eating ideas – Here are 4 advanced methods

Once you’ve used your power as a dominatrix to make him eat cum, here are some advanced techniques you might want to consider trying:

#1 Long Distance CEI

First, when we mention CEI, we’re talking about Cum Eating Instructions. A popular tag in porn usually involves the dominatrix giving him instructions on jerking off, edging him until he begs to cum. Once given permission to shoot his load, he is provided instructions on how to eat it. Often the male will be ordered to talk about how it tastes.

This is an excellent method for long-distance relationships. If you can talk to him on the phone, or even better, over facetime or zoom, use your feminine powers to exert your control. When you watch him lick his semen up, you’ll know he’s putty in your hands.

However, this can be a tough order to follow for long-distance submissives. Most professional phone and online dominatrixes will tell you that new clients almost always talk about wanting to be forced to eat their cum during an intake discussion. However, many guys end up backing out when the actual moment arrives. You may want to tell him that if you order him to do something, such as eat his cum, and he refuses, there will not be another opportunity!

#2 Position him Upside Down, and his dick pointed at his mouth.

This takes a physically fit submissive to perform well. Having him positioned upside down, on the back of a couch, or on the headboard of your bed can work. The key is that his penis needs to be aimed toward his mouth. Have him masturbate, or help him along and order him to catch his load in his mouth. There can be a punishment if he misses any.

#3 shoot his load into his food

Another great way to degrade and assert dominance is to make him shoot his load into his food. Then, order him to eat every bite, or he’ll endure further punishment.

I recall a time I was feeling frustrated with a guy I was dating. He was starting to push back against my dominance in little petty ways. So, to put him in his place, I had him prepare a big, expensive steak dinner (on his dime). As he brought out the perfectly prepared steaks with all the trimmings, I ordered him to strip and masturbate at the table. Then, when he was ready to cum, I commanded him to shoot his load on his plate.

Most of his cum landed on his steak and over his baked potato; he was getting pretty good with his aim by this point. The bit that landed on the table cloth he quickly wiped up with his finger, then smeared it on his roll. I was satisfied and told him he could sit and eat his dinner. He was humiliated but proceeded to eat his steak dinner ala cum. Our dinner guests, a couple of my best friends, never took their eyes off the entertainment as they dug into their dinners! 🙂

#4 Make him drink it in his cocktail

Finally, consider making him masturbate and create a cocktail with his special ingredient. Semenology: The Semen Bartender’s Handbook has several recipes, including a Semen Rimmed Margarita, Mexican Cumslide, and a Pina Cum Laude.  

This works in lots of situations. Make him masturbate into a container, then have him prepare drinks. He’ll add a unique ingredient to his own, then watch as he enjoys his drink.

Conclusion – Femdom Cum Eating

Making your submissive eat his own cum is a powerful way to assert your dominance over him. There are so many benefits to you and him; there’s no reason to avoid this kinky activity.

What do you think? Are you a femdom mistress who has successfully used cum-eating in your scenarios? What’s worked for you?

Guys – we want to hear from you too. Have you ever tried eating your cum?