The FemdomU WHIP
Learning His Triggers
One of the most interesting parts of bringing Ben into my home has been learning what truly motivates him. Rewards and discipline only work when they are tailored, and he has been surprisingly honest in showing me where his buttons are. He very clearly enjoys being...
Your Knees Aren’t Indestructible
If you spend a lot of time kneeling, take care of those joints. Use a kneeling pad or soft surface, especially on hard floors. Over time, poor support can lead to inflammation or long-term pain. Serving on your knees shouldn’t mean suffering in...
Rewarding Saturday
Got off to a rocky start. Krissi took me to a morning sporting event at the local college. Our team lost. I was upset. He was sullen – it wasn’t pretty. And then an hour-long traffic jam. Very frustrating. I hate heavy traffic. Meghan’s Dommes have reviewed...
Purse Boy at 30,000 Feet
A while back my girlfriend (and owner) and I were on a flight together. She had a work thing and brought me along as her “purse boy,” which is exactly what it sounds like. I attend the event, I carry the purse, I stand where she tells me, and I try not to embarrass...
When Past and Present Collide
My husband has an ex. The woman he was with when he met me. They were not married, but it was serious. And yes, she was his Domme. Life has a funny way of looping back. Over the years, despite some early friction, she and I ended up building a relationship of our...
The Car Rental Boy
I had just landed, tired, annoyed, and already done with people. I walked up to the car rental counter, gave my name, and of course they told me the car I reserved was gone. Instead, they tried to hand me the keys to some tiny little shitbox. No. Not happening....
Uncanny … and Surprise, Surprise: a Fabulous Cock (Part ONE)
It is uncanny how often things happen with my group here which parallel – in timing and substance - what FemdomU's Dommes are writing about. This is the story of another, just before Thanksgiving. I originally started this a couple days after it happened, thinking...
Our Gay Neighbors
Our gay neighbors are always out walking their little Keeshonds, rain or shine, morning and evening like clockwork. One afternoon I was in the garage, half distracted, organizing things I had no intention of actually organizing, when they wandered over to say...
Week One: A Clearer Line
This past week marked the beginning of my intentional search, and it offered clarity faster than I expected. I rejected every application that came in. I had two dates scheduled. One ghosted. One catfished. I met one person in the wild. He was confident, slightly...
Scene Logs Help Track Patterns and Safety
A scene log isn’t just a kinky diary—it’s a tool for growth. Writing down what toys were used, what positions were involved, how you felt before, during, and after, and any reactions you noticed helps track patterns over time. You’ll learn what consistently works...




















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