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Health & Safety Section Editor
NurseDomme Jessica brings her extensive experience as a retired first aid professional to her role as the Health & Safety Section Editor for FemdomU Magazine. Known for her meticulous attention to detail and unwavering dedication to safety, Jessica ensures that all our content promotes safe, consensual practices in femdom activities.
Jessica’s unique perspective as both a healthcare professional and a lifestyle participant allows her to bridge the gap between kink and care. Living with her supportive husband in the Northeast, she enjoys a balanced life filled with travel, exploration, and femdom adventures. She frequently collaborates with Madam Nora Sinclair, lending her expertise to BDSM parties and events as an aftercare specialist. At these gatherings, Jessica not only provides first aid but also relishes the playful attention she receives from submissive males, making her a celebrated figure within the community.
Beyond her professional contributions, Jessica is an avid traveler who delights in exploring new cultures and meeting people from all walks of life. Whether she’s participating in Madam Nora’s legendary femdom extravaganzas or sharing her experiences through the pages of FemdomU, Jessica remains committed to fostering a safe, informed, and inclusive environment for all.
Through her writings, Jessica offers invaluable insights into the intersection of healthcare and kink, empowering readers to embrace their desires with confidence and care.
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Sub frenzy is the intense rush new submissives feel when desire outruns self-control. It can lead to risky choices, emotional overload, and physical burnout if not paced. This guide explains the signs, the psychology behind the frenzy, and the steps both Dommes and subs can take to keep exploration safe and grounded.
In multi-partner or group Femdom scenes, sexual safety must be intentional, informed, and consistent. NurseDomme Jessica explains how PrEP, DoxyPEP, mpox vaccines, routine STI testing, and smart barrier use can keep every participant protected. When safety becomes part of the protocol, everyone can surrender fully, explore deeply, and trust the scene completely.
Fear scenes can be thrilling, but they demand precision and care. Domme Jessica explains how to use code words, body language, and cool downs to keep fearplay both safe and erotic. Discover how to balance terror and tenderness, creating fear scenes that build trust instead of breaking it.
September is Sexual Health Awareness Month, and in femdom, responsibility for sexual health is essential. Nurse Jessica explores why care, testing, and honesty are the foundation of trust between Domme and sub. Learn practical steps to maintain sexual health and how to eroticize responsibility as part of your dynamic.
A confident Dominatrix is also a prepared one. This guide walks you through the ultimate health and safety toolkit for at-home play, from first aid basics like safety shears and antiseptic wipes to specialized items for bondage, CBT, wax play, and more. With the right supplies, you keep scenes both thrilling and safe.
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