The FemdomU WHIP
Correction Still Matters
Cody is a grown man. A husband, father of my children, and an emotionally mature person. At this stage in our relationship, it is actually rare that he does something requiring real correction. He understands our structure, communicates well, and generally...
thing2 and His Remedial Training
One of my Patreon boys on the weekly training tier is working on improving his cunnilingus skills. As part of that, he purchased one of those realistic pussy toys, and I’ve been assigning him practice exercises with it. He then sends me photos and reports back on...
My LA Chauffeur
I spent four days in LA recently, and somewhere around day one I realized I needed a damn driver. My schedule was insane. Meetings all over town, dinners, social events, random networking bullshit. And if you’ve ever been stuck waiting on an Uber in LA traffic...
When She Gives Away the Key
So I can actually handle chastity pretty well. Seriously. I know that surprises some people because I complain like a bastard, but after awhile my brain adjusts. The cage becomes normal. I stop thinking about my cock every five seconds and settle into my role. But...
Ask for Clarification, Not Forgiveness
If a command is unclear, do not guess. Acting without full understanding can lead to mistakes that affect safety, trust, and the overall dynamic. Asking for clarification shows awareness and respect for the process. There is no weakness in making sure you...
Well… That Happened
Oye. I am usually very, very careful about keeping my vanilla life separate from my kinky one. Cody and I have kids, extended family, school obligations, all the normal parts of suburban life. We are selective about who knows the truth about our household. Most of...
Profiles in Kink: Alexis Carrington
Today, we pay homage to one of the most dazzling icons of 80's primetime television: Dame Joan Collins, who turns 93 today! Her portrayal of the scheming villainess Alexis Carrington Colby Dexter, etc. on the primetime soap opera "Dynasty" made an indelible mark on...
Welcome ohtoole
Please help me welcome our newest volunteer sub, ohtoole. He comes to us with real experience in service, having spent years serving within a dominant-led relationship dynamic, and he is now dedicating himself to the Matriarchy of FemdomU. One thing that stood out...
5 Ways I Plan To Improve as a Submissive Man
Become a Better Listener and Observer Pay attention to every detail of instructions, change in moods, likes and dislikes, anticipate her needs ahead of time. Make sure her needs are met in a timely manner. Her needs are my only priority. Don’t Make the Same Mistake...
We Found It
I’ve been very busy lately with something huge. House hunting. We finally made the decision to move out of the city, and honestly, we’ve been searching for the right property for the better part of a year. I had a very specific list of requirements, and I was not...














Great article Duckie! Thank you for the how to instructions as well. I hope they don’t come in handy.
duckie, this gave me a smile. I do, however, think a short instructional video would have been useful. Perhaps we…
I have a few questions- 1. Does the submissive have the right to stop the event any point of time?…
The little “Good Elf” notes are a sweet idea—personal praise feels way more meaningful than generic holiday gifts. I’d tuck…
Ty Eleven !! I can be quite the little collector!